2006-07-01 06:08:45 · 25 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she is cheating on her husband, wouldn't she do the same to you?
2006-07-01 06:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Still Halloween 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See Jeff let me open your eyes your being played. I've been thru this and I know. At first the divorce was coming in a month then two months then three. See a pattern here you stumbled on a woman who was missing something from her marrage and guess what YOU gave it to her. So really what reason does she have to leave her husband? She's getting the best of both worlds while your sitting around like a chump hoping that something that's never going to happen will. Now think of this do you really want to be the guy who has to listen about her kids birthday parties and how the mother in law pisses her off. Your better than what you've gotten yourself into believe that. Find someone and make the things you want your OWN. Meaning kids, married life white picket fence and so forth. Do it for you u deserve it. Let the married woman go to counciling with her husband and figure it out for herself what's missing. Don't allow yourself to be used
2006-07-01 06:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should have probably asked yourself this question a long time ago. Are you doing the right thing by falling for a married woman? Are you not interfering in someone's marraige, life and happiness? I know its harsh but this relationship your having with her, is going to be very traumatic for someone.
She is also going to be torn between you and a commitment she made to someone else.
Ask her what she wants. Let her think for a few days. If she is torn, I think its best you suggest to her that you end things with each other and live happily. If she is confused, you should still do the same. If she says she needs time, ask her what this time would do for her.
There is no use prolonging your suffering and hers if there either of you are confused. Remember, she is married.
2006-07-01 06:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long will it take to run out the door?!? This is a no-win situation. No matter how deeply you feel for her and she for you, won't you always deep down have that doubtfulness and secret question - will she do that to me??? I know that I would, but that's me. If you want to give her a time frame, make it like 1-3 mos. and then see what happens. Personally, I won't be surprised if she ends up "needing more time because of........" However, on the optimistic side, there are always exceptions. Best of luck, and I do hope you don't got hurt, honestly.
2006-07-01 06:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No time at all. You shouldn't even be in this type of situation. If she hasn't left yet shes not going to leave him. How can you be so sure there is even trouble on the home front? Or how do you know if you all be together soon as the trouble with you she not going to do you the same way? She trifling you deserve better than that.
2006-07-01 06:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by TASHA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unitl yesterday.
Chances are, she isn't leaving him. She is just using you for a feeling that she thinks is missing from her marriage. She may not realize that the passion goes out of *any* relationship after a certain length of time. She's trying to recapture that passion with you ... but there's likely not much behind it.
Keep this in mind if she does leave him and get together with you: What happens when the "passion" goes out of YOUR relationship?
The answer should be real apparent ... she'll find someone else to have "passion" with ... behind YOUR back.
End this thing now, my friend. End it now.
2006-07-01 06:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt she will leave her husband. She is bound for him forever so I would just give up on her. Find a women that is single and not married to fall in love with. The other women is taken.
2006-07-01 06:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by LUST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't leaving, she just wants variety with you and him. I actually have a cousin and she's in the same situation but she'd never leave her husband, she just loves the sex with the other guy. Realize that it's nothing and walk away. Would you want to be with someone who cheats on their spouse anyway? Really now.
2006-07-01 06:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with a woman that has a husband? You need to find someone who is not married and leave her alone for real
2006-07-01 06:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 seconds
2006-07-01 06:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by clubcar641 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? You shouldn't even be with her now!! If she does leave her husband, how long will it be before she does the same to you.
2006-07-01 06:11:32 · answer #11 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋