while i was in hospital my new-borns Grandpa asked my mom on a date while i was laid up in a bed from cecarean. I was angry. They said it was a friendly thing to get my mom out of hospital. Wrong! I knew what .His perverted self was tryin to get with my mom and get her into bed. His own kids and ex wife talk about how he is. He is an alcholic and dips tobacco. My mom does not like that in men. But he hides it when he visits her. The next couple days he came to my hospital room and talked to his son about gettin some a** and stuff in front of me. He also kissed my kneck from being showin up drunk at hospital while my family was gone. Ever since they have gotten together it has created problems between my family and his.. Yea i know their not Blood..(My mom and My childs Grandpa on other side) But basically they should be family because of birth of my child. They shouldnt let their hormones and lonliness draw them together to create more problems than our family already has. Help Me!!
2006-07-01 06:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by nacchick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your mother about it all, confront your stepfather
2006-07-01 06:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like your grandpa is the source of a lot of the problems. Your mom shouldn't date him, but not because he's your grandfather, but because he's an out-of-control alcoholic. He won't make a good boyfriend!
The best thing for your baby is to keep your distance from this situation. Talk to your baby's father about being as independent from them as you can. I hope you are not living with your mom! That will make it hard. It's just a matter of time before the situation will mess up your kid's mind.
2006-07-01 06:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is an adult and her choices are hers alone. Really you need to respect that even if you know she's making a huge mistake.
The older we women get, the fewer options for love we get so sometimes loneliness wins and we date someone that we know isn't right.
Tell her what you know about the dude and also tell her that you know it is her choice and that you will respect it. It's just that you love her and want her to be happy and you're pretty sure this guy isn't going to make her happy.
Then let it go. Odds are pretty good she'll figure out he's a jerk soon enough, and even if she doesn't, it is NOT worth wrecking your relationship with her.
Be her daughter and love her anyway.
2006-07-01 06:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. I hear dueling banjos playing in the background.
You might need to speak to the child's father, if he's around, to speak to his father about his behavior. And you need to speak to your mother and let her know what's been going on while she's not paying attention, particularly the way he speaks about HER. But the biggest problem is his drunken behavior, not your creepiness at them being together.
2006-07-01 06:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Jerry Springer would appreciate it if you could give him a call
2006-07-01 06:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by der_grosse_e 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he only wants sex from your mom
2006-07-01 06:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by crackalac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋