What's the matter actually if I have such CLOSE & FANTASTIC relationship with MY own beloved little SISTER...? Am I wrong here?
I live together with my own beloved little sister in our small flat... just two of us since our parent has passed away long time ago. We have no more closed blood relative left. Anyway, I'm currently 20 and she's 19 and we're both studying in the same college. I'm majoring in physics while she's on literature. We also earn more money by singing in the wedding and café.
We both are so totally open and genuine each other. We love to share about anything, even about our personal problem in college and our love and sex live. Sometimes, if I don't hang out with my girlfriend and neither does she with her boyfriend, we're used to killing some time together... going to the movie, strolling in the park, cooking our dinner together, kinda of brother and sister's stuffs....
2006-07-01 05:51:11 · 32 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We never have a fight. Even if we DO fight, it'll only last for hours... we'll chill out on the next day. Also, I'm so happy that my sister befriends well with my girlfriend. I'm going to propose her soon and I love seeing the two most important women in my life can get along altogether!
However, some people talk about nasty stuffs behind us. I don't know why they're bad-mouthing us... talking about incest and that kind of stuffs... Have I done something wrong here? What should I do then? Okay, I admit that we're so closed... even closer than any ordinary brother and sister... but I still don’t see anything wrong or kind of "forbidden love" here....
2006-07-01 05:51:38 · update #1
theres nothing wrong, with the relationship you and your sister have.i have 7 children and i pray that they will be there for one another, the way you and your sister are there for one another.i tell them that all the time and i also tell them after there father and i are gone all they will have is one another.i admire you guys i can only hope and pray that my children will have the type of relationship you and your sister have.and for those people who has had nothing good to say,i feel sorry for them because that let"s me know that they weren"t taught about family closeness and that as siblings they should be each others best friend. which means that they should always be there for one another no matter what that's called unconditional love. so it kind of let"s you know how there relationships are with there siblings.so don"t let what there saying bother you,it seems to me that mom and dad did a hell !!! of a good job raising you guys.
2006-07-01 06:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with your relationship my brother and I are the same way we never lived together as adults but we always made sure we lived next door to each other I would feel ill if i could not talk to my brother it is okay !!! people are just mean you know jealousy will get you nowhere maybe they are not close to their own families my husband didn't understand at 1st either he used to say that we were weird but then i realized he had 3 other siblings 1 sister who hasn't been home in 15 yrs they all live in different states he said his mother put them against each other as children so as adults they have no relationship at all which is sad cause i could not imagine not seeing mine. And further more you are being a great male example in her life and all women need a good male role model so that she wont take the crap out there I Love that you two are close continue living your life if you are happy who cares what other people think !
2006-07-15 04:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having a closely bonded relationship with your sister! Especially since your parents had passed away long ago. It's awesome that your girlfriend and your sis get along so well.
Good luck with your upcoming proposal!! Don't worry about what others say! Maybe the ones that are talking behind your back are jealous cuz they don't have good relationships with their siblings!
2006-07-01 05:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong as long as no romantic feelings are there. I think that it's great that 2 siblings are that close. I'm extremely close to my brother so I know what you are talking about. Just don't worry about what other people say. I would think that they are all jealous of the close relationship that you have with your sister, and wish that they have the same kind with their siblings.
2006-07-01 06:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you were probably married in a past life. It is great that you have each other to rely on and depend on. As long as the two of you aren't doing the deed and it is just brother sister stuff go for you.
I saw a sister jump into her brothers arms and plant an open mouth kiss on him...it was really gross.
2006-07-01 08:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by uma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without your parent, it sounds like you two can really count on each other. You are still your own little family. You will always need each other. Some people would be so lucky to have a special bond with anyone in their family like it sounds you two have. Don't feel bad. Feel blessed. Keep counting those blessings and standing by each other. Those that don't understand, forget them. You know what is important to you.
2006-07-01 05:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having a close relationship with your sister.
I can only suggest that the people who say bad things about it probably don't have such a good relationship with their siblings so are jealous or find it odd.
2006-07-01 05:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by moon dust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with your relationship with your sister. Often when children are left to raise each other they become much closer than children raised by a parent. You have only each other to depend on and it makes you very protective of each other. I know of another family like yours and although both brother and sister are happily married now, they are still very protective of each other.
2006-07-01 06:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by irish_yankee51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its all good as long as u nor ur sister are having any sexual feelings.......then i'd hafta say ur a freak n thats gross but u seem to be going about it ok....its nice to have a close bond with family after such a tragedy. I wish i had someone like that to lean on when my fiance passed away in sept. good luck in ur future endeavors peace!
2006-07-14 14:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Karie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there is nothing sexsual going on, I think it's great to have such a loving relationship. Don't let stupid, jealous people get you down.
2006-07-14 06:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by kittylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋