If a woman who has been sexually active in the past, has not had sex in 20 years, will she experience pain and tightness much like when she lost her virginity?
2006-07-01 05:49:23 · 18 answers · asked by Cheryl K 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that she would experience some discomfort at first unless she is VERY excited, and had lots of foreplay before having sex. No doubt she is going to be very tight, and if the guy is large, it might hurt a little at first. 20 years is a long time, and although not a virgin again, she will have gone back to almost a "virgin" state.
2006-07-01 05:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Hi, It really depends on how big your boyfriend is. In any case it shouldn't be as bad as your first time, although after 20 years it might seem like the first time all over again(that's a long time!) Go slow & good luck!
2006-07-01 13:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-01 12:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because it depends because she hasn't had sex in the last 20 years which is a long time.
2006-07-01 12:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am actually thinking that she is going to experience intense pleasure from not having gotten any in so long... if this is you... do you not masturbate? I mean, at least 90% of the world does, so if you aren't having sex with a partner you should at least be doing it with yourself.
2006-07-01 12:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When I was active, I used to be like that if I went a month w/o it.
2006-07-01 12:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a tightness, but nothing like the pain of first sex.
Lots of lubrication and go slow, OK?
Good luck on your date tonight.
2006-07-01 12:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes...so prepare for that, but don't make that your focus. Plan on enjoying yourself and seizing the moment. Just make sure that you are completely comfortable with losing it again after so many years....make it worth it :)
2006-07-01 13:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by esker71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a possibility. see the pain usually encountered during your first sexual interaction is the hymen breaking. the hymen is a little piece of skin. over time the hymen can heal back up. so there is a possibility.
2006-07-01 12:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, yes!
2006-07-01 12:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋