i have the biggest crush on a girl that is now in 11 grade and i graduated this year i asked for her # her freshmen year and never called her since im really shy and i get really nervous when i try what can i do to get myself to call her and what should i talk about i really like her alot plaese help my chance probably went by but i think i can still win her heart PLEASE HELP
2006-07-01 05:42:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.....if you have a sister or cousin
you and she bump into this girl and ask her to have
pizza with you and go to a movie
then you tell her you'd like to take her on a real date if she is willing to go with you..just stick to movies and
pizza[ or whatever she likes] so you can hang and talk some..
2006-07-01 05:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Linnie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the shy thing i can help u with but if u ever call her say this i like i think u are pretty do i have a chance of going out with u
if that was no help then i am very sorry.
2006-07-01 12:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Deserae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find her and ask for her number again. your WAY past the deadline to call and shes probably dismissed you as a jerk. no offense but being shy isn't much of an excuse! suck it up! lol. no really get her number again and call her in a period of three days. then talk to her about anything really. but the best thing to talk about would be where you wanna go and if she'd want to go with you. ask her out!
good luck!
2006-07-01 12:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you really like the girl, Whatever you do stay mellow, act like your just talking to one of your friends, and be yourself if you try to act like someone else then 1) she wont get to see all the great things about you 2)If she does date you then you have to act like this person 24/7 3) If she does like you then she doesn't really like you be who u r acting and why live with that 4) Why live a lie...... Ok just call her and be like sup this is (ur name) And just like make her laugh and try not to try so hard- I'm sure she'll like you for who u really are.
2006-07-01 12:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call ;) Be yourself!
Now that you are out of highschool you don't have to necessarily "face" her everyday if she turns you down. Chances are she likes you anyway if she gave you her number. She probably wonders why you never called.
Another thing.. if you be honest with her and tell her how shy you have felt about calling... it will make her smile. My thoughts anyway. :)
Good luck!
2006-07-01 12:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST HAVE TO SUCK IT UP AND DIAL THOSE NUMBERS....IF NOT WHEN YOU SEE HER LET HER KNOW...
TELL HER THAT WHAT YOU'RE DOING IS HARD FOR YOU BUT YU'RE DOING IT BECAUSE YOU CANT KEEP INSIDE YOU ANYMORE AND YOU JUST HAVE TO LET HER KNOW..AND THAT YOU'RE NOT EXPECTING ANY ANSWER AT THAT TIME..BUT YOU WOULD LOVE TO HERE THE ANSWER..NO MATTER WHAT IT IS....
TELL HER THAT SINCE YOU SAW HER YOU'VE ALWAYS LIKE HER..NOT CRUSH..LIKE...AND THAT YOU NEVER CALLED HER BECAUSE YOU WERE SHY AND THAT YOU REALIZED THAT BEING SHY ISNT GOING TO HELP YOU TO GET TO KNOW HER BETTER...THAT NOW..YOU'RE FINALLY GOING TO LET HER KNOW..BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO GO ON AND LIVEMY LIFE ALWAYS WONDERING ..WHAT IF..
TELL HER THAT YOU'D LOVE TO BE HER FRIEND AND MAYBE EVEN MORE THAN FRIENDSHIP...
IF YOU CANT DO THAT..THEN I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY..
BECAUSE IF YOU ARE INTERESTED ON SOMEONE YOU HAVE TO LET THEM KNOW AND GET AN ANSWER INSTEAD OF WONDERING ALL THE TIME....AND WHEN YOU LIKE SOMEONE YOU SHOULDNT BE SHY WITH THEM YOU WANT TO GET CLOSER WITH THEM AND GET TO KNOW THEM BETTER...SO YOU CAN SEE WHY YOU LIKED HER...
JUST PLEASE SUCK IT UP..AND DO IT!!
2006-07-01 12:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by *sunshyne* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. . . dont be shy, your not gonna be rejected if thats what your worryed about. YOU GOT HER NUMBER! Do you know what that means? she is allowing you to call her! call her and get to know her then hey, maybe you'll just get to go out with her. be smooth though. cause 1 strike, then your out! cause one little screw up will screw the whole relation up. so just talk 2 her like you know her. alright? goodluck.
2006-07-01 12:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by domingobennett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just call her up hell i'm shy to and if you really luv her u would call her up and talk to her don't be to shy but just call her up and say hi how r u or something and if she likes which i bet she does she would understand just let ur mind work and ur heart beat
2006-07-01 12:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ali J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her and be casual, like " i lost your phone number but finally found it, it was in my closet with a shirt i dont use for a long time, how are you?" stuff like that.
2006-07-01 12:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Max Power 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her talk about anything ask her out or something
2006-07-01 12:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋