Well, I used to work part time as a receptionist in a law firm and he is still working in the insurance company opposite this firm. The thing is he used to wave at me whenever he passes by. We never get to talk to each other until we met once in the lift. When I told him I will be leaving for uni, he said to keep in touch, we exchanged no. but he never really sms me. He never even made it to college. I sms him first but it was not until the third time that he actually replied and he said he missed me. Then after a week, I sms him again and he called. But he never called anymore after that. What did I do wrong? Should I even think about him?
2006-07-01 05:34:20 · 16 answers · asked by hopeless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is either playing it very cool or just not that interested, sorry to tell you i think its the latter. although he could just not be might that good at the whole flirting sms and phone calls. he may just be shy, dont call him or text him again until you break then just call with a breazy voice and just say hi, was wondering about how u are etc. nothing over the top!stay cool! dont you just hate guys when they do that!
2006-07-01 05:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men don't like to be seen as 'desperate' and so quite often are not good at making much effort. They expect you to do the chasing, but then you are the one that appears desperate and that then puts them off you! Moral......you cant win :-) Hence the whole boy/girl lark is a game
2006-07-01 05:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very simple girl, he is not really interested at all. Just a mere aquaintant and that;s it. Forget him, better yet, ask him whats the real score between you, hello, there's nothing wrong in finding something whats troubling you, rught? so go and get it and be done with it!
2006-07-01 05:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by shih 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tha one call? what did you say and what did he say cause if didn't seem interested in him then he might of givin up on tring to get together with you. cause some guys think they most likely won't have a chance with some girls so they try give a hint they like you for a while then if you give no notice that you like them back then hey give up.
2006-07-01 05:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Alix M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really cared he would have died to talk to u...but cant say anything...anyways just waving or saying dosent means that he loves u or he is not intrested..keep on trying and try to know weather he is really intrested in u..so dont loose hope he might really likes but shy to say
aur express his feelings towards u!
2006-07-01 05:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by komal k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that u did anything wrong. he was interested in you for awhile and then since u went away to college, you could no longer keep in touch and he soon met someone else.
2006-07-01 05:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by cute_shorty_878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look if he said he missed you then that means he likes you in some way
what you need to do and should have done is ask him out to lunch or dinner
then if you realy do have feelings tell him that you have feelings for him
tell me how it goes
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2006-07-01 05:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by trouille123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there was a pair of shoes in a shop that you really wanted you would get them wouldn't you.
on the other hand if he really wanted you, he would be in touch.
give benefit of doubt, contact him one last time, if he is indifferent then drop like hot potato.
2006-07-01 05:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he was intrested in you he would have let you know,maybe he just wanted a good friend or made him feel good when you waved back
2006-07-01 06:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it was just a casual acquaintance, and nothing more. Forget it, and move on in your life.
2006-07-01 05:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋