she's 20, she can be my daughter i think the diferent is to much
2006-07-01 05:30:58 · 23 answers · asked by latinoforyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO ALREADY .. YOU CANT BE WITH HER...SHE'S 20 SHE'S NOT EVEN ALOUD TO DRINK ALCOHOL....ONCE SHE TURN 21..SHE'LL BE PARTYING AND MEETING OTHER GUYS WHO ARE HER AGE...
DONT PUT YOUSE;F IN A SITUATION THAT YOU WILL REGRET....I MEAN IF YOU GUYS ARE JUST SLEEPING AROUND..THEN THAT'S FINE BUT DONT BE IN A SERIOUS RELA WITH HER BECAUSE ITS JUST NOT RIGHT...IT'S TEMPTING TO BE WITH A YOUNG GIRL BUT NOT TO BE SERIOUS WITH...
TELL HER IT'S JUST NOT GOING TO WORK OUT BECAUSE SHE STILL HASNT LIVE HER LIFE AND YOU SHOULDNT STOP HER FROM LIVING HER YOUNGL IFE...SHE WILL MEET OTHER GUYS AND WIILL GET MARRIED AND BE SERIOUS WITH SOMEONE..BUT NOT WITH YOU..BECAUSE IT JUST WOULDNT WORK OUT....
LIKE I SAID IF SHE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU JUST BE WITH HER BUT DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT BE SERIOUS WITH HER.....SHE IS NOT READY....
AND YOU..YOU CAN BE WITH SOMEONE YOUR AGE THAT WILL LOVE YOU AND BE WITH YOU FOREVER...WHO ALREADY EXPERIENCED THE LIFE THAT A YOUNG GIRL HASNT EXPERIENCED...
2006-07-01 05:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by *sunshyne* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation when I was 38 and a classmate was 19. I had coffee with her and met some of her friends. I realized right there (with all of the tattoos and piercings, etc) that dating her would be merely a romp (sex). You can get lucky and find a truly mature woman at 20 - but that is very rare. Unless you just want it to be sex, then find someone in their mid-30's.
Good luck! (and be happy that young chick finds you attractive)
2006-07-01 05:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can answer this question cause I have been their before in my life. First ask yourself are you ready to have more kids in your life cause their is a good chance she will want a family of her own and one with you. Also as you reach the age of wanting to start enjoying life near retirement are you prepared to stay at home due to her work. Next as you get older with less engery are you willing to let her go out with her friends to different places by herself cause your likes dislikes have changed. If you answer no to these question then maybe you do need to see someone more your own age. Remeber this might be a mid life crisis and you do not want to hurt her to make your self seem younger.
2006-07-01 05:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you really though this through because girls that age are usually looking for a father figure or are money hungry, but if the two of you really love each other go for it. Think about this when you are 52 she will be 30 when your 62 she'll be 40 and so on.GOOD LUCK
2006-07-01 05:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by lowrider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her maturity and yours as well. If you have like minded interests but just enough differences to keep it interesting, it could work out very well. The only concern is that between now and her mid 20's, she will do her most significant amount of changing and that may not be to your benefit.
2006-07-01 05:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by jknne2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 35 dating a 25 yr old. in our case the age difference doesn't matter. Her and I have so much in common the age difference is not a factor. If it's a sex thing then give it up now. if the two of you can relate on a mental lvl then who cares.
2006-07-01 05:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by reloaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes lots of money. If you already have lots of money look for a girl that doesn't mind being bought off, most marriages in the old days were like that anyway, what makes us so special today ?
2006-07-01 05:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be going out with women who are mature and with whom you have a lot in common...that would be women your age. Younger women are more physically attractive, but they just haven't lived enough...sooner or later you will get tired of her immaturity or she will want to find someone younger who has more energy and interests similar to hers.
2006-07-01 05:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by sunny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much chance of a healthy relationship. She is too young and hasn't experienced life. But if fun is all you are looking for and she is willing, I say go for it - you're both adults. But you'll have to let her go sooner or later.
2006-07-01 05:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Laney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I experienced a courting with a lady who became 14 years my senior, and it worked out at the moment. It became no longer the age large difference that parted us, it became the irreconcilable alterations. It completely relies upon on the couple.
2016-10-14 00:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋