I prefer bad boys ... some how they all don't have a proper job, owe people money, don't take me out on a proper date or never buy me anything nice ....
2006-07-01 05:26:29 · 9 answers · asked by ladybug21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhhh ... the time-honored question! One that has baffled "nice guys" since time began.
Although there is no perfect answer (it depends totally on the woman), I'll try to offer mine.
Women want a man who interests them. Nice guys tend to be predictable, and run the risk of being considered boring. "Bad boys" on the other hand, are full of surprises, so there's never a dull moment.
Some of the answer may also be built into our genetic code: women are attracted to the confident, swaggering, boasting "hunter/killer" that will ensure the suvival of the species.
The true answer, I'm sure, lies somewhere in that mix.
The real question is: "Can a woman find a relationship with a "nice guy" she can love?"
Yup. But sometimes she has to be patient enough to let herself discover the value of having a "nice guy" as her mate. Work on looking for interesting and unpredictable "nice guys".
Don't look for swagger, boast or fight. Look for interesting, bright and decent. Those guys are likely to treat you better. Besides, you don't really want that guy who is the TRUE "bad boy" or "caveman". They are destined to leave you disappointed and resentment.
Just be you ... and be the best, most interesting you possible ... and be patient. You'll find a good "nice guy" if you let yourself.
2006-07-01 05:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't know your own worth. You haven't been hurt enough. Keep going out with these guys long enough and when you've had enough pain, you'll change your mind and look for nice guys instead. By then you'll be lucky if you can find any because there are a lot more psycho jerks out there than nice guys. So...my advice to you is that if you have the chance to go out with nice guys do so now, because repeatedly getting used, chewed up and spit out gets real old. And believe it or not, you deserve better.
2006-07-01 05:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by sunny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the nasty idiots on here.
alot of girls are like you.
if the reason why you go for bad boys isnt cos you have low selfesteem then its probably just a phase your going through cos right now you may find the good guys boaring, but bad boys arnt always the awnser cos of some of their lack of respect for woman.
if you make mistakes by this you will learn from them and become a better person and maybe then one day you may settle for a good guy
2006-07-01 05:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by sasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you like being treated like crap and a nice guy well treat you right so that's why your not attracted to nice guys.
2006-07-01 05:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys don't provide any challenge for you...and besides, some people like to fix "broken toys"...lol:)
2006-07-01 05:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by WORD UP G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem until i met this really nice guy who believe it or not rocked my world. so i guess u have to wait until u find UR nice guy.
2006-07-01 05:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweet thing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losers like losers
2006-07-01 05:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think how it will be years from now when you have nothing and the guys you taunt have it all.
2006-07-01 05:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer a slutty girl i guess
2006-07-01 05:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋