My boyfriend hadnt been calling me over the summer. He finally did and he asked if it was okay for us to break up. We were together for about a year and we have known each other since we were 5. He always told me how beautiful I was and how much he loved me. But b4 we were together he acted different. And when we were together he acted all big and bad. I knew that wasnt MY Adam. Anyway, He said he was under alot of stress. I didnt understand. So I told him if thats what you want to do, then fine. Were over. But I dont want to see him in love with someone elese. I need help.
2006-07-01 05:15:36 · 21 answers · asked by sockxgoblin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was just trying to impress you more. he was just overwhelmed. b4 you 2 got together was the real him. if you want to give him another chance and C if he will behave like that again, then try it. but you can tell him that he doesn't need to impress you when he already stole your heart
2006-07-01 05:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you should talk to him and clarify why he wanted to break up with you and why he didn't call you over the summer.
Why was he in a lot of stress?
If he has some kind of problem may be you could help him.
Communication is vital in a relationship.
I don't know the facts, but usually when someone stops out of the blue calling his partner for a long period and then asks to break up it means that he met someone else.
2006-07-01 05:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by bellerophon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he could not handle being more than just friends with you and you wanted alot more than friends. Are you sure you wanted to be more than friends? Does it hurt that he wasn't able to be totally upfront with you or that he does not want to be more than friends. Give yourself some time to get thru it and later both of you will be moving on. Later it won't hurt so bad to see them with someone else. You never know the next guy really could be the one that is perfect for you and you will be glad this one is only a friend.
2006-07-01 05:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by m0mmatcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, to me, plainly like i could circulate with the two John or Jordan, Jocks are jerks for the main section, and that they've an inclination to run around on human beings, so except you're into that style of stuff... do no longer %. him. plainly like the only charm to him besides may be the reality that he ought to such as you and he's bodily beautiful. i'm kinda siding in direction of Jordan, this is rarely a reliable thought to come again with an ex. in my concepts. I did as quickly as and it ended no longer too long later. and now, I extremely have somebody who extremely extremely does love me and who I additionally love with all of my coronary heart, so, basically bypass the 2nd component to the ex relationship and circulate right this moment to the happy, I desire I had. besides, Jordan looks like the terrific %., to no longer point out he's a similar grade, makes it greater proper, ought to have classes together. i actually wish I helped =]
2016-11-01 01:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was acting different while you were dating , than you should have known things were not going to cmoe out the way you expected. I know it is going to be hard for you to watch him fall in love with someone else, but you need to try to get over him.
If he broke up with you because he was under stress, then, went out with another girl, that would mean that he just didn't want to with you anymore, but he couldn't tell you that.
But if he doesn't go out with someone soon, that may mean that he really was under stress, and couldn't handle having a girlfriend. (I'm not saying you are hard to handle as a girlfriend).
Give Adam some time to get over his stress, and see if he wants to go back out with you. But if he falls in love with another girl, than you are going to have to get used to it, because you can become very jealous, and the outcome may not be that great.
My advice to you, is to go out and explore the world, and try your becst to get over him. Good Luck and Best Wishes.
2006-07-01 05:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control what other people do and don't do, doesn't matter if its dating other people or falling in love with someone else.
Take this time to learn more about yourself and do things you enjoy that if you were in a relationship you wouldn't be doing.
You can't force someone to fall in love with you or stay in a relationship that isn't working for them. Just let him know you are there for him and let him go .
There is a saying Let him go if he comes back then it was meant to be.
You are going to need time to heal over this one...but I am sure there will be many more men in your life...
2006-07-01 05:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i know it will hurt for you to see him with someone else... but it would be that way... even though you had been together for a year,okay... look.. here's my point, it doesnt matter how long you have been together, there are more guys out there who will love you more and treat u better! if Adam really loves you, he would do aything for you. but he didnt do that to you.. the 1st thing he did was not to call you?? and then after that he broke up with you.. i think its not a good idea for you to get hurt when you see him with someone else. believe me :)
2006-07-01 05:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by bluerox04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he moved on down the road. It isnt going to be easy but try to stay away from him,dont call him or talk about him to people you both know.Guys can be such idiots! Keep your chin up and tell yourself that you deserve better than that and I'm sure God has something in mind for you already!
2006-07-01 05:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by pammi_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a real jerk! u know what , u're too good for him. so , just let some time go by and u'll see u're better of without him. and u don't want to see him in love with someone else because u still care about him and u're used to having him for urself. it's gonna be ok, trust me...just hang in there!
2006-07-01 05:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by sweet thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Move on. Consider yourself lucky, you could have ended up marrying the guy. Let another girl go through that heartache.
2006-07-01 05:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋