Since this is so long...I'm going to just have to give points of the story. If I didn't, it would take like 3 of these boxes. -It feels like my mom and bf are in a 'silent war' w/ each other. -My mom doesn't really like me going to his house & she doesn't think that kids our age should be going out for as long as we have-13mons. i've had no reason to break up w/ him & it seems like she's finding a way to do so. i'm her only child & she says that if my dad were here (away for work) that it would be easier. bull. my bf doesn't want to fix it & i feel like i'm in the middle. and IT SUCKS! i told him to be the bigger person & talk to her w/ me but he won't. now he doesn't want to come over or call the house anymore. :( i just don't know how to approach my mom & talk to her w/o fighting, but i want to get this resolved. oh yeah, my bf and i are...get this...going to turn 18 in september (me) and november (him). WE"RE ALMOST ADULTS!!! *sigh* i hate being an only child. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2006-07-01 05:08:44 · 3 answers · asked by TeddyGram 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think she's ready to hear 'i love you' being said between us yet. and we have lied to her...and got caught 2 of those times...and w/ her its 3 strikes and your out kind of thing. he does love me. and we plan on being together for a very long time...i think it's just because she's afraid to let me go. this goes into the topic of college, but i'm not going to go there. it's a whole nother story. but it's basicly the fact that she doesn't think that we should be going out for as long as we have. and if my dad were home...he wouldn't care about any of this. he's fine w/ him. it wouldn't be different w/ him home. she'd still 'worry' about me.
2006-07-01 05:28:48 · update #1
If I were you I would pick a time like during dinner and say, "Hey mom, what do you think of (your bf's name)? I kinda noticed that you seem to have a slight grudge with him. I was just wondering if you do, because I love both of you and I wan t this to work out. So, can you please be honest with me and tell me if you have a problem with him because maybe we can work this out together and everything will be ok."
2006-07-01 05:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by xox_Edward_xox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is so weird. My friend just came to me yesterday with the EXACT same story. And her last name is "Grams" so I thought you were her for a second, judging from your screen name. But I'm going to tell you what I told her. There is probably no way to change your mother's opinion about him. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will be the bigger person and talk to her or say sorry. Also, tell your mother how much he means to you. If nothing happens then you have three options, which are sadly all negative: Dump him, disobey your mother, or lie to your mom.
2006-07-01 12:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't love you. Because if he did he would do anything just to be with you!
2006-07-01 12:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋