My wife and I are thinking about having kids and I am excited but also nervoious. Is this normal? and What should I do about these feelings?
2006-07-01 05:07:34 · 7 answers · asked by BigDaddy82 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are getting ready to start trying for children, of course it's exciting and nerve-racking at the same time! That's completely normal. This decision will change your entire life, but it's one of the most wonderful things that can happen to you when you are ready for it... Congratulations... just sit back, relax, and enjoy the unprotected sex!
2006-07-01 05:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Yes its very normal, all men (and a lot of females) feel the same way before having kids. Its also a good thing for it means you realize having kids is a huge thing that will completely change your life.
You can talk to friends/family members who have kids, as them how they felt before, and after. Maybe you can watch their kids for a day or a weekend one time with your wife, to see how it goes, to sort of practice. Just don't be ashamed of how you feel, it shows you are normal and aware of the big responsibility it is to raise children.
2006-07-01 12:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're feeling is normal. Have kids and then you won't have those feelings anymore...you'll be too exhausted to feel anything!! But seriously, it's a happy tired because babies are miracles and kids are precious, and as a parent you will learn more, love more, cry more and laugh more than you ever dreamed could be possible. Having kids gives you the motivation to do and be your best and the opportunity to truly grow up.
2006-07-01 12:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by sunny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal. you are trying something new and you really want to experience it but then you are nervous about the negative sides. don't worry! be happy!!
2006-07-01 12:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is always normal for men to be nervos just hand around other people that are parents
2006-07-01 12:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ur body getting ready to be a father, let them take control over you, that's the way it should be, and hey, thanks, you just gave me two points i needed to get to level three.
2006-07-01 12:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by lynexxe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get a dog and if you already got a dog then get a goat
2006-07-01 12:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by stone cold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋