for example, if you like someone previously, then when you're looking someone new, u tend to look someone similar with them, whether their looks,personality, etc
2006-07-01 04:47:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way....the world is a buffet... i tried different things but now im full
2006-07-01 04:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a 'type' that was based on my first ever crush. A friend of my brother named Eric. Nothing happened there and it was a humiliating experience. I had bad relationship after bad. Then I stopped looking for a type and had one great short relationship. And then a bunch of not so good ones but all the people were different types. So now I don't look for more than friendship. I figure I need to be a better me to have a better relationship.
2006-07-01 04:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Amber Jumelez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think you do all the time. Some similarities are great to have but if your to much alike you'll get annoyed with each other quickly so if your already looking for someone new then you should be able to spot this little 'same-types over and over bug' and try to fix it. Plus If your not to much alike your relationship could be more interesting.
2006-07-01 04:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by Synyster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the outside they are different (in appearance or type of work they do, for example), and they have the good qualities I like, so I think they're going to be different, but then it turns out they have addiction issues or other problems that I refuse to deal with. I haven't yet attracted the kind of guy I feel I deserve to be with, so I know I'm doing something wrong.
2006-07-01 04:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by sunny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that all the time when I meet a guy I feel that I am comparing him w/ my ex, that can be bad. You need to realize you may pass up the good guy/gal because you keep falling in that same trap, try looking for new thing's in that person sometimes it could be hard especially if you loved that person.but keep an open mind. good-luck
2006-07-01 04:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Roe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you referring to male and females or the same type of personality, looks in general.
I think that most human beings are attracted to the same type of person that they are, were raised like,, etc.
For example: You don't see a guy who likes country music ,,,befriend,,, a guy who has tatoo's and earrings all over his body.
Nor, do u see a girl who like her guy dressed in Polo...choose a guy who is wearing slouchy t-shirts, dirty teeny shoes, and a ballcap....
2006-07-01 04:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My second boyfriend (this was about 8 years ago) set the bar. But, no one ever seemed to measure up, so I just started to settle. And yes, they all looked different, had completely different interests and personalities....... But, guess what, 8 years later he showed up at my doorstep telling me the same thing. Now, we are together and extremely happy.
2006-07-01 04:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i get a crush on some one i look for similarities . i don't want to be identical to the person i like. but it is nice to really, truly understand what he is talking about. i uasally like redheads. i go for a certain style in boys.
2006-07-01 04:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have paticulars that I am interested in and certain things catch my eye but I have wide horizons and am pretty open to any opportunity that arises
2006-07-01 04:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll I wouldn't look I would just wait til someone catchs my eye
2006-07-01 04:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probally their looks all the boys i like look the same
2006-07-01 04:49:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋