Whats up peps i need help?

Question

yall i need help, i told this girl that i like her and after almost two weeks she said yees to going out. now it seem that we hardly talk anymore and each time i ask her out she doesn't show up and doesn't call. iam lost and don't know what to do

Answer 1

I'm kind of thinking that you were attracted to her just because of her physical appearance to begin with. That's not wrong, but if that's all there is ... it isn't enough.

She may have been flattered by your attention and decided to give it a shot. When it became obvious to her that there was no depth to the relationship ... she started putting distance in it.

Dating is a process, not an end. We all have to kind of practice it in order to get it right. That means we try and fail, try and fail, until we learn how to do it better.

It's okay to look for some girl who's pretty, but you should also look for things you both enjoy together, or things you can learn from each other, and ways to enjoy being around each other.

You will learn to go past the superficial and put a bit more into a relationship ... and so will the girls you date.

Just relax and enjoy the process ... you have years to learn it.

Answer 2

Sounds like she was not really interested to begin with - she may have said yes because she did not want to hurt you, but now she is not comfortable letting you know how she really feels. Try talking to her and ask her exactly how she feels and tell her you can respect her feelings either way she might respond...

Answer 3

That's a toughy. Ummm. Maybe you just need to move on. Sometimes that's just the best solution. If you are like in love or somethin... then tell her how you feel.