why is it that when it comes to braking up no matter how long the relationship lasted the guy can get over the girl so much faster?
2006-07-01 04:46:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not true. It depends, and there are plenty of cases where a guy falls for a girl who's just using him - guess who gets over the other one faster? Someone once asked: who is it that's in control of the relationship? Some argued it is the guy, cause he is the one with the initiative in most cases. Some claimed it is the girl, because she is more in control of her sexual urges and can dominate the guy through sex. In the end, the answer was in no way gender-related: the person in control of a relationship is the one who is less invested in it. And I would argue, that's the person that gets over the break up easier too. So maybe the lesson is: care less, hurt less. But sometimes not being able to get over something shows that you felt real emotion and that's more than a lot of people can say for themselves. So I would say... Don't be sad because it's over, smile because it happened.
2006-07-01 04:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by chuchie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls hurt easily then boys,all they do is find someone else and for girls they get emotionally and they get the idea that they cant find anybody else,and thats not true dear.in the first place they didnt care for you in the first place.i figure maybe you had the same experience,well iam sorry if thats the case but the only way to get over someone is find another.
2006-07-01 04:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....guys are just slightly less emotional then girls. And it's not so much that they 'get over' things faster....they simply don't show it.
2006-07-01 04:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its as easy for the guy to get over a gril its just that guys dont show how they feel
2006-07-01 04:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always true i had a few gfs who were over me faster than i was them.
2006-07-01 06:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not entirely true.Each & every case is different.It took me a year to get over my ex & she seemed to of got over it quickly.It's not guys versus girlls it depends on each indivual.
2006-07-01 04:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer a guy! yet i think of a purchase ought to like a woman for her character no longer her hair and so on. yet blonds, brunettes, and different hair colorings, are on equivalent floor. BLONDS are no longer continually DUMB!
2016-11-01 01:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not always that way but yeah girls have a lot more feelings than guys and thats why it takes girls longer
2006-07-01 04:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural. we tend to look for someone else after the break up, but sometimes its hard for the guy too.
2006-07-01 04:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya.. the guys seems to show .. but they dontforget it soon...they dont even say to others..
2006-07-01 04:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by sandeep_psg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋