having Abortion?

Question

What do you think about abortion? I'm thinking about having one!

I will not give the child up for adoption!!

Answer 1

What you need right now are the facts. So many people are saying, "It's your decision, it's your choice," but it is important to learn exactly what that choice involves. Remember, the baby has no choice, and is depending on you, her mommy, for love and protection. Please take a look at these sites right away:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Your well-being and your child's life are at stake. You can do the right thing.

Answer 2

That is a living human inside of you! The heart started beating probably before you even found out you were pregnant. It really is a small human. The baby's intestines are probably formed depending on how far along you are! If you are 2 months then its skeletal structure is already formed! I'm sorry but I don't think you should have an abortion! Even though you don't wanna put this child up for adoption, please think about it! Take a long look at yourself! Doesn't it seem selfish to say I rather kill this child then bring it into this world and let somebody else have it! I'm not trying to be mean but just take at look at this in a positive way! Don't be selfish and be a good person! Give this child a chance! If you do decide to have this child, I gurantee you when you see his/her face nothing else would matter would matter anymore!

Answer 3

I think it's murder. Murder is wrong, that life is only apart of u due to a placenta and an umblicial cord, otherwise it's separate, so it's murder. Ok, if ur dead set against adoption, then ur only choice besides killing ur kid is to raise it. Why don't u atleast consider adoption? That's the most wonderful thing u can do. it' not selfish either, but aborting a child, or having it, raising it when ur not ready, and possibly resenting the kid for not being like a doll is. It's a huge responsibility taking care of a kid, and when he/she calls u mommy, that implies ur the sole provider for that child(it should), and if ur not ready, give it to someone who is. U've already did one thing wrong(reated a kid ur not ready for), don't do another. All this tells me is that ur a selfish person. u might've not thought of it this way, but since u want opinions, then there maybe something motivating u to look at all the options. Please think of ur child....it's not about u anymore, and besides, ur gonna loose out either way, because I've known women who've had abortions who still cry at night years after because their body went through heck, and so did their psyche's. Don't do that to urself, because if u have an open adoption, atleast u can work out an arrangement with the parents to see the kid every now and then...u cant do that if u kill it. If u take on the responsibility urself, it might be too overwhelming, and that won't be good either. Whatever u decide, just make sure to use protection, or close ur legs next time ok?.

Answer 4

I think that abortion is wrong, even if the female is doing it because of rape. Abortion is wrong for any reason. Adoption not abortion. To me it is murder and killing a person. I've watched a tape on what happens when a female gets an abortion and it seemed really wrong and I was really disgusted by it. But the choose is only the females, can't go around to all females and tell them not to do it. We all think differently and know what's right and wrong.

Answer 5

My opinion is this.....

If you think your responcible enough to do the act of sex you are responciable enough to take anything that may come out of it, such as STD's or a baby.

If YOU think YOU are able to go through being pregnant and having the baby for yourself, and keeping it, that is the most responcible desicion you can make for yourself and your unborn child. There are many places that can help you through it, and county help to pay for it, so you don't pay a dime for any of it until 30 days after you have the baby. WIC to get you food, for you and your baby. I got $100 in formula every month, which was more then enough. And milk and cheese for you, and they give you cereal for you and your baby. There are places to help find you a home.... HUD.... that will get you into your own house. And you will only have to pay maybe $50-$100 for rent. Food shelfs to help feed you.

I am not going to tell you, you are killing your baby, like most people here. I don't agree with pushing thier beliefs onto someone else, like making people go to different religions, it's NOT right.

But, I'm also not saying I agree with abortion, I run 50/50 on it. No one can tell you what you should do but to try and help you with YOUR choice.

Now if someone is going every few months to have an abortion, they need to have thier legs glued shut!!! They are not being RESPONCIBLE about having sex.

So I wish you luck in life.... B

Answer 6

I don't think that I can change or influence your decision, but if you are so against giving up your baby for adoption, because you couldn't bear parting from it, after carrying it for nine months, why are you willing to never see it again, and spend the rest of your life wishing you could? I know that you love your baby, it would be strange if you didn't. Do you need someone to really listen and talk it over with, better than Yahoo Answers.

Answer 7

This is a hard question to answer.Check your other options first,(having the baby,giving to adoption ect) and if your still thinking about having an abortion look for a good clinic.But Think this thougth, so you don't make mistake that you may regret for the rest of your life.

Answer 8

i personally think that too many ppl use it as a "get out of jail free" option. if you're going to have sex, you know you could get pregnant, so i think its wrong to take that way out. i dont think you should have sex if you cant handle the responsibilities of what happens because of sex.

in cases of rape, i can understand it. someone took away your right to make a decision, so you have the right to stop what never should have been. ppl say abortion is murder, wel i dont see how you can condone rape to prevent murder.

and i dont think that abortion should be illegal, just because i'm against it doesnt mean anyone else should live by my personal code of morality.

AND, i dont think it should be a woman's right to choose, it should be a COUPLE'S right to choose. it takes 2 ppl to have sex, and 2 ppl to get pregnant. it shouldnt be 1 person's burden, or 1 person's right. you go into something together, you make the calls together.

and if my parents believed in abortion, i might not have been here. i was a pretty severe "oops" pregnancy. so, i thank my lucky stars that i'm here today.

Answer 9

I think if an abortion is the right thing for you to do, then I think you should. Just think about your options and make sure that is the best thing to do. I am for abortion as long as girls don't use it for a form of birth control. Just please be very sure before you do it, because it is something that you will never forget that you have done.

Answer 10

Depends on the situation,
1. you dont have the monetary condition to look after a child, dont have it.
2. You still have a long career and a fast life in front of you dont have it.
3. you have no such problems and the mother in you is crying for the baby to give you company for life, go ahead and have the kid.

personal opinion: the kid deserves to live, and the kid deserves your love and affection. there is nothing more beautiful than motherhood.god has given you an oppurtunity.