i have a friend and we both like each other and we do not go to the same school but we both go to karate and we do not want it getting around there so he asked me if it was possible to have a relionship on the phone and we both said mabey can we and if we just go to the movies with one of my friends and one of his we can go to the movies but ppl frome karate r like always there so how do we have a relionship
2006-07-01 04:41:12 · 9 answers · asked by haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first question you have to ask yourself is "why do we have to keep secret?"
If a releationship is one that has to be kept secret, it is doomed from the very start. Either he's already got something going or you do.
You two either have to be upfront with a relationship or forget about it. Otherwise, someone is fixin' to get hurt real bad ... and it's probably not going to be him!
Forget this guy and find one with whom you can have an open and honest relationship.
2006-07-01 04:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Haley, being in a relationship isn't really a relationship at all. If you're so afraid to tell everyone from karate that you are his girl friend then why bother? The relationship probably wont' last that long if you keep it a secret. Just bring it out in the open; it won't be as bad as you think. That way you won't feel guilty about anything.
2006-07-01 11:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Vanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell are you guys trying to keep it a secret. I highly doubt either of you are married or anything. You really think you are so important that people will talk about your love life. Well, your not. Just date the guy openly and be happy.
I thought I told you to get rid of that Paris Hilton avator.
2006-07-01 11:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate Paris Hilton!
2006-07-01 13:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Misspretty♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being as it may i like to do karate too and i don't know if i was in your situation if he likes you just ask him if he likes you go for it but be honest with him and try yo have the courage to talk to him.
2006-07-01 23:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug18ju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you don't want anyone to know. Sneaking around will never work. You are either having a relationship or not.
2006-07-01 11:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst you can do is try. Remember... as long as you two are happy.... that's all that really matters. So just go for it and see what happens. You probably won't regret it.
2006-07-01 11:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it if it dont work out then continue looking for other people that u think u have a conection with
2006-07-01 11:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by boyfriend41minute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES U DO!!!~ paris hilton is ur dpic.. lol u really do need help
2006-07-01 11:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋