I really like this girl. And I want to do something creative for her that speaks loudly how I feel about her. any Ideas? girls what would you like for a guy to do for you that would just prove to you that he was head over heals for you. I have always heard that actions speak louder then words, but how do I act?
2006-07-01 04:40:42 · 15 answers · asked by thmslln3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Catch her attention with a mystery! Start leaving her small, unobtrusive surprises, like her favortie candy bar, a tiny teddy bear, a single flower, a pretty handkerchief, a sample size perfume, a fancy card. Try to choose some gifts that show are aware of her interests. If you see her reading a book, leave her another book by the same author; if she has a hobby, get her some hobby supplies. And so on.
Leave a little note with each signed "Your secret admirer". Don't do it everyday, she will be more curious it's only once or twice a week. Be patient and do this for 3-4 months before you make any moves. That way she knows that you're oh so sincerely and honorably interested and this isn't just some scheme to seduce her.
Finally, have a dozen (two dozen?) roses delivered to her at work. But sign with the question "May I take you to [name of a nice restaurant] sometime soon? Please call." and your name and phone number.
Investing so much time and effort into pleasing her will say so much more than merely spending a lot of money on her or doing a single "unique" stunt.
2006-07-01 05:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 12⤊ 5⤋
Do someting sweet for her. Bring her some flowers, or just a single rose. Red roses are always a safe bet, but if you know what kind is her favorite, that's even better. If you want to be a little more creative then bring her a rose that's one of the multi-colored ones, like the sunburst colored ones with orange and yellow. Flowers are sweet, and at the same time it sends a message of intent--that you like her and are interested in her as more than just a friend.
Or you could find out more about her--what her interests are. Maybe you pick up a book for her that you knew she wanted to read. Or you grab her some coffee on the way to work/class/wherever you see her, because you know she loves a really good cup of coffee. Or maybe you just tell her that you saw something beautiful the other day, and it made you think of her. Try to do something that shows her you know her, and you know what tastes she has, because you listen. That will melt her.
2006-07-01 11:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be honest, keep your word, and treat her like a gentleman. Bring her flowers, cook dinner for her or take her out to dinner, buy her (or make her) a card just for no special reason, make a gift for her if you're the handy or creative type, play a song for her that expresses how you feel about her...all those sweet and romantic things that have worked for millions of guys in the past! But the best thing is to focus on her and truly get to know her, and tell her about yourself too...women like deep conversation. They like to feel understood by the man in their life and they like to be able to understand that man as well. Be attentive...find out the little things she likes and do them.
2006-07-01 11:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by sunny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a special romantic evening or afternoon. Take her to do something that you'll enjoy doing together, follow up with a nice dinner, and generally spend time concentrating just on her. Time and attention are great turn-ons.
2006-07-01 11:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know her friends real well, ask them what she's into for gift wise or what she likes. then go around town finding these things. like make her favorite meal or buy her favorite book, you can fine a poetry book that you like and make the pages of what poems remind you of her and show her.
make a cd with her favorite music or fine songs that remind you of her on a cd. be creative in your ideas.
2006-07-01 11:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by midwestsweetheart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers!
2006-07-01 11:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Heather R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a sky gram say it in big words or just a special card and flowers.
2006-07-01 11:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by Roe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my husband took me out to movies, the beach, and the thing that i loved the most was when he took me out on a country road and we watched the stars i loved it. it was so beautiful. he also took me out to dinner and took me to six flags and stuff like that. well i hope you find your answer hun take care.
2006-07-01 11:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Crimson_Skies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her happy everyday
just a few word when she's down might make her think about you
2006-07-01 11:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by lime_crush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and tell her. thats getting right to the point, then after that everything else will come to you.
2006-07-01 11:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋