2006-07-01 04:35:20 · 19 answers · asked by iam2youngforyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is Kafka, the French existentialist who said that every problem has a solution because every problem one day ends; and the end is its solution. Likewise, time is a great healer; because in course of time the intensity gradually is diffused and the problem ceases to exist.
2006-07-01 04:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time doesn't "heal." What is does is put distance between you and what ever happened to hurt you. It's like a slow sanding process. Imagine using a fine grade of sandpaper on a piece of hard wood. Very, very slowly rub the sandpaper over the wood. It will take a long time to smooth the wood.
It's the same with the sharp, intense feelings you have when life takes a wrong turn. Time will sand ever so slowly over your raw nerve ends and the pain won't be so difficult to manage.
It never goes away. It just becomes less of a constant reminder.
2006-07-01 11:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for anyone else, but I know that time doesn't heal everything. As time goes on you just learn how to get through the day with out falling apart and eventually you learn how to cope with it better. But if it's a broken heart your trying to heal, you may find that eventually you will move on, but you will probably still remember the all the pain you felt.... I hope that whatever's broken gets fixed... Or at least a band-aid for now... :)
2006-07-01 11:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie-Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time really does heal everything ... but you have to help it along.
The end of every relationship is marked, to one extent or another, by "separation anxiety". The is the "hole" that's left in your chest by the removal of the relationship.
The best way to deal with that is time ... and action. Force yourself back into the world. Begin by going out in a small group of friends ... just to enjoy some sort of activity. Follow that up with going out with just one or two friends.
Eventually (with some it's quick, others a bit longer), you will begin to feel normal again. At first, that empty feeling will be very evident ... but it starts to fade faster the quicker you re-join the world.
Be on guard against jumping into the first relationship possible. That's called "on the bounce" and it generally leads to a very short time together and leaves you wondering what you ever saw in that person. All you wanted to do is fill that "hole".
Try not to think about him all the time. Your mind is only going to remember the good times, anyway. When you find yourself thinking about one of those times ... force yourself to remember one of the real bad times. That helps speed up the healing process.
Above all, keep your faith in YOU.
2006-07-01 11:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rob R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe it. I lost my mother which was my very best friend and I thought I would die. But now, 10 years later, I miss her but I am so thankful that she does not have to go through so much pain and sorrow here on this earth. I also was divorced 15 years ago. I thought my heart would bust, even thought about suicide. But now, I have a wonderful man that loves me and the Lord, and I wouldn't trade him for 10 of my first one.
Time really does heal all........
2006-07-01 11:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's somewhat true. Whatever hurt you are feeling now, it will lessen as time goes on. It won't disappear but it really will get better. I remember when my boyfriend dumped me and said some really cruel things, I was absolutely devastated. I wanted to die because it hurt so much, and I knew I would never be in a relationship again. That was 2 and a half years ago, and it has faded to a distant memory that I only think about once in awhile. And I'm interested in someone new now! Try to surround yourself with happy things and keep your chin up. It will get better.
2006-07-01 11:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does heal the pain it's just waiting that hurts
2006-07-01 11:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It DOES heal everything, however it can sometimes seem like nothing is happening. It can feel like nothing will EVER help make the pain stop. . . but it does eventually.
2006-07-01 11:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time can definitely help but I don't believe it's the end all to a cure of a broken heart or loss of something you once loved.
2006-07-01 11:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by SBean_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time only passes, love never heals.
2006-07-01 11:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by franky_the_j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋