I am 13 and she is 12. If I tell her she may freak out and tell her dad who is a pastor and i'll be dead. help.
2006-07-01 04:30:32 · 11 answers · asked by c1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on her personality. If you know that she is not going to laugh at you with her friends are make fun of you if she happens to not like you, then you could risk it. At your age I think you should just start by becoming good friends with her. Once she really likes you as her friend she might not find the idea of you being her boyfriend so funny and if she doesn't like you and she is your friend she will tend not to make fun of you.
Oh don't over push the friend thing for too long.
2006-07-01 05:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by EIliot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a little young to be worried about relationships you have plenty of time so dont get in a hurry. If you like someone than just be honest. I doubt her father will be too mad. The worst that could happen is she doesn't feel the same way and if so it's not the end of the world or the last girl you will ever like.
2006-07-01 11:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by naruto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Just make sure you're spot on the timing when you tell her. As for the pastor, it depends on his level of religiousness. And make sure you find out if she's a daddy's girl, or the type that tells everything to dear daddy. If this works out, I want to be the first one to congratulate you, buddy.
2006-07-01 11:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by chubby_claw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so cute that you have a crush. But if she is your friend she would not find it a bad thing. But you are still young and you will have alot of crushes. First you can tell her that you know someone that likes her. And they think that she is a (that's when you name all the good things that you like about her.) If the reaction is what you want then just tell her that you are that person. But if she responds with she does not like you like that tell her that you hope it don't ruin your friendship. BUT DON'T BE TRYING TO DO NOTHING NEITHER ONE OF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR AND YOU KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. WAIT FOR A LOOOOOONG TIME FOR THAT!!!!!!. Take care of yourself. Hope that this helps
2006-07-01 11:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by princess4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really interested in her, first you should start something simple, like taking her out to a date, a movie, dinner, etc. When you think the day has come to tell her, tell her in a sweet way that gentlemen should do to other girls,give her a gift,(make sure its simple) then it should be very easy to tell her you like her.
2006-07-01 11:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by nococaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a good moment. Try to judge her feelings beforehand. I believe you two are in 7th or 8th grade. That means, if its anything like my middle school, your flirting. So just flirt with her a bit. See if she flirts back. See if she intiates flirting.
But then if you think that she may like you back, tell her in the sweetest way you can think of.
2006-07-01 11:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Donnie Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should wait until you are you ready for her to answer you. She may give you a answer that you weren't really ready for but then again she may answer you with the answer you have been waiting for, for so long.
2006-07-01 11:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by honeylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know the second you tell her! Go for it. You win, great. You loose, great... you move on. no time wasted. (pastors daughter? she won't freak, and she won't tell)
2006-07-01 11:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by franky_the_j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it. u kever know, she might like u too! and if she's cool as u think she is she wont tell her dad.
..or u could just ask her not to tell her dad...
2006-07-01 11:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by honni~graham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you're too scared. just tell it to her. believe me she's not going to tell her dad.
2006-07-01 11:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by spongebob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋