We're in Middle School.
We have been going out 4 about a month & a week. We've seen each other only 3 times cuz of his beyond overprotective mom & our busy vacation scheduel. I am going 2 c him on my birthday (In 12 days....it's my golden b-day) I dunno if I should kiss him or not. We've both never kissed anybody. This would be the 1st kiss 4 both of us. I REALLY ♥ him so i don't wanna scare him away......
Should I just risk it?!
Please help me.
2006-07-01 04:30:20 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it! but don't get too crazy, keep the tongue indoors. A girl who kisses on the very first date is usually a hussy. A girl you waits for the very second date is anything but fussy. But a girl who waits for the third time around! Head in the clouds! feet on the ground! She's a shapoopie!
2006-07-01 04:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to you will always remember him. that said your judgement based on lack of experience probably is not where it will be in a few years. I would wait until you really are certain. if you are questioning yourself then your probably not there yet.
You also need to decide where you are willing to let it go. Babies all start with a kiss. more then a few girls your age have allowed something to progress well beyond kissing just by the excitement and sometimes the boys putting pressure on. Make darn sure that you know the risks of sex before experimenting. there are many books and pamphlets around if an adult isn't there to talk about this.
Take it slow-don't rush into something that you'll later regret. Kissing can be lot of fun-it's just that it can become too easy to move on from there into things that carry life changing risk.
Follow your heart but respect what your mind is saying too.
God Bless
Brother Duane
2006-07-01 04:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Duane Allman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both still in school rite? so at your age a first kiss should be something more like friends maybe just a peck on the cheeck or forhead.
you do know even for a simple kiss your parents could have him charged with sexual assult if your under the legal age of consent if i remember right.
so in short just play it safe for now and hold hands when in public kiss on the cheek.
and when the time is right for you to have a more passionate kiss you will know in your heart (and your gut) when to kiss. and then just let the moment take over but don't let it go past a kiss and hand holding until your over 18 or he could end up in a young offender institution despite you being willing and able the laws the law.
2006-07-01 04:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken9090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should probaly see if he wants 2 kiss u because what if u lean in 4 a kiss and he just urns away you will fill embbarrsed. If u really want to do it than do it. It wll proaly feel awkward asking u 2 kiss him. but probaly let him ask the question cause it will be much better. becareful not to go no further than a kiss
2006-07-01 04:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means give him a kiss on the cheek or neck quickly when you are laughing or just having a good time and see how he reacts. It will seem to him like a spurr of the moment thing and if he wants to kiss you back he shouldn't be hesitant anymore.
2006-07-01 04:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by slick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're asking the question you probably have doubts about doing it. I suggest you do this and any other thing only when you feel comfortable about it. It’s about what you want and feel good doing. Believe me, if you do it and you are not ready you will fell really bad about it. Just make sure you are ready so that whatever his reaction, you don't feel guilty about what you did after you're finished.
p.s - I always prefer when the guy attempts to make the first move. They tend to appreciate you more.
2006-07-01 05:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by EIliot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... yes you should go ahead and kiss him. You're in middle school for crying out loud. I know you may like him a whole lot but I'm sure you'll have other guys and bigger problems.
Best of luck
2006-07-01 04:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by canutellmethis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would possibly want to tell him your motives. Is it because he tries to kiss you in public? many women, women and men don't love PDA. He might want to manage to comprehend that. per chance you at the instantaneous are not smooth with the intimacy, and think ofyou've got each proper to attend until eventually you're. with slightly of luck, inspite of your motives, he will comprehend and recognize you for being consumer-pleasant
2016-11-30 02:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon you should definately go for it...
it will be great and everything will come naurally...and you know whats good,is that its both of your first time so both of you can go through it together...kissing is a beautiful natural thing to share with somebody that you love,and trust me...once you have a physical relationship,your relationship will be ten times betterjust do it...it will be great and it will happen naturally...dont ask him to kiss you...just go to a quiet place and sit and cuddle for a while...then your golden day will become platinum!!!!;-)good luck
2006-07-01 04:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by kill_the_barbies!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead dear just plant 1 on his lips,it only means that you love him,if he cant see that ,i pity him.so i say go ahead and kiss him,it wouldnt mean you are ready for the sack,the only think it means is your affection for him.his parents need to cut the apron strings some day.
2006-07-01 04:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Sara B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋