Am a chinese guy with a white girl as gf. why are everyone looking at us when we are walking on the street? Im feel so stressed!!(oh! i live in Taiwan)
2006-07-01 04:27:27 · 17 answers · asked by Asian-Taiwanese 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how you feel. I am a Chinese and my wife is white. And by the way, I live in the US. When I took my wife to the university (in US) where I got my degree from, we noticed that a lot of people (especially the Chinese) were looking at us. I don't think it is odd looking but it is just something not too common. Usually, Chinese go out with Chinese; so, people are not used to seeing a Chinese going out with a non-Chinese. With that said, there is nothing wrong with you going out with a non-Chinese. So, you don't need to be stressed over it.
2006-07-06 04:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh u r a chinese too? me too.
mayb everyone is curios to c a chinese and a white girl walkin' on d street. Not everyone has a white gf/bf. and i am pretty sure that you notice this... from the beginning. And you live in Taiwan so this answers all...
2006-07-01 04:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Resha Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of cultures like their people stay with in their own cultural group. Just the fact that she is white and in Taiwan stands out. I have been to numerous asian countries and I get stares whether I am with someone or not. Most countries are not as multi cultured as say the United States is where multi racial companionship is normal. As long as you two care for each other that is all that matters
2006-07-01 04:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is so nothing wrong with that. if you love eachother then that's all what matters. and i'm not going to lie..to other people it may seem wierd or look silly,but if you find people staring at the two of you,give her a big kiss and make sure they see it! don't be stressed...obviously this girl has something you like about her. see how things go,it's not like you have to marry her. enjoy life.
2006-07-01 04:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird...those idiots are juz too bloody narrow-minded. or maybe they are juz jealous of u, heehee. but living in an asian community, maybe it is a big deal to go out with a caucasian,dats y they stare, maybe they are thinking wats wrong with our own local girls. but again its the same if ur living in america, if a white guy dates a chinese, sum ppl will tok abt it behind their back too.
2006-07-01 04:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress over what other people think. Trust your heart. If you let other people get to you it could hurt your relationship. You'll know if you should be with this girl or not if you just trust your instincts.
2006-07-01 04:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by greentiger1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is just because you guys are mix couple. who cares let them look. Do you really care what others think about you to. Cause it shouldnt.
My husband is white and Im not. Yeah people look at us sometimes. So what is what I say.
Maybe is because we look alot more happy than they are. Just like you and your girlfriend.So it shouldnt matter
2006-07-01 04:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by you_me_set 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy!
2006-07-01 04:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems unreal to them. they are so sterotypical. just becuase you are chinese doesn't mean you can only date chinese people. as long as you are happy, have a f**k you attitude towards people that don't approve.
2006-07-01 04:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people have a hard time minding their own business! but if you love her don't stress. next time someone stares just say "beautiful, isn't she?"
2006-07-01 04:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by gooodluckcharm01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋