I just want to forget my situation...and try to move on but just when started to..I get this blocked number and it got me thinking it was him...but maybe it wasn't...
2006-07-01 04:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by iam2youngforyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep doing what your doing and ignore it. See your looking to connect everything that's alittle strange to this guy. Believe me if he wanted to contact you he would.
2006-07-01 04:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. My ex-boyfriend is from Florida, and it seems that everywhere I turn there are ads for visiting Florida, news about the hurricanes and storms in Florida, and the textbook I have to use to teach my students always has stories and examples in it that somehow include Florida. I hear the songs we used to listen to and every place I pass by or think of that we went to together reminds me of him. Then I'm always checking the phone too to see if he called me.
I broke up with him, so maybe I'm regretting that I didn't handle things in a different way because obviously I'm still not totally over him. Also, I felt there was some unfinished business between us, so I did call him a few days ago and had a long talk with him, which helped a lot. On the other hand, I have to remind myself that although this period in my life is painful, it's really better that this relationship is over. After enough time passes, those things won't bother you any more. I know because I'm totally over my ex-husband, and I could care less about the life we had together and all the things we did and places we went. I can hear our song and it doesn't affect me at all. So, I think giving yourself more time to get over it and continuing to move forward in your life, doing new things and meeting new people will really help.
2006-07-01 11:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by sunny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two reason why this keeps happening. One is that even thou you and that person is not together you are still have love for that person. And with love you can't turn it off and on like a faucet. And second things is that if the break up was bad there may be some amends that need to be made. Not to make the other person feel better but so that you may be at ease. Reason that I know I have just went through that myself. Hope that this helps you.
2006-07-01 11:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by princess4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problems, I was with the guy for two years, and it has been almost two years since we broke it off, we have a daughter and he wont have anything to do with either of us. I still love him and always will, but you need to move on to the next lucky guy. Just keep your mind on the future instead of what could have been... and remember this, most first loves end, they are just introductions to the world of love and loss. You may feel like you can't go on without him and you don't want anyone but that person, but you will feel differently once you meet the next great guy. Good luck!
2006-07-01 11:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your head girl. YOu really can't move on if your whole being is not into it. Try waiting some more. Time heals all wounds and being really hurt is normal after a bad situation. Don't force yourself, each person has their own pace of coping with sadness.
2006-07-01 11:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by foxpassed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can waiver and wane,
beyond the horizon in vain.
Naught begone impossible,
staying forever indivisible.
There's still love there. You had love with the person, and it'll stay there forever. So move on, taking small steps, as you go over the bumps along the way.
2006-07-01 11:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by chubby_claw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be the same thing you did when spending time together
so u start 2 think of that person becoze they were happy thoughts!
u can forget a person in 50 years but still u may remember him\her
once a time this is normal.
2006-07-01 11:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there i am married and it has been years but the memories always seem to find away to sneek up on me they are always there and i use to run into this person a lot but recently he has moved it has help slightly but not enough so honey i know what you are feeling it sucks just wish the past would stay in the past. it is so hard and you are up for a challenge!
2006-07-01 11:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like someone it is hard to forget them but in time you will give it time keep yourself too bust to think about him. take some time and focus on you go get a make over .hold your head up and smile it may take some time but you will.
2006-07-01 11:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by shanesha n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you want to move on doesn't mean you can. you have to let your body and mind recover. it takes a while but htere are stages of grief/loss. once you get through them, it will make it a lot easier.
2006-07-01 11:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋