my girlfriend asked for her space?

Question

a week ago my gf calls up out of no where and says she needs some space. But i asked her what was wrong and she said she had some family issues and a few things she had to sort out in her life, i asked her if she still loved me and she said she did and she said we could still talk, and not to worrie she is not running off on me with another guy. Every other bf she has had has cheated on her, she tells me and i have secretly talked to her friends and they all say that she says im the best guy she has ever met and i might be the one. But she said that we r seperated for a month and if i can give her a month than she will have a solid answer as to what will become of us, is this a breakup or does she just need time to sort things out in her life or what

Answer 1

I have been where she is now. Give her this space because if u push and pressure her you will drive her away. Just relax and spend a little time with the guys, just don't go window shopping yet.

Answer 2

Good God man... listen and learn.
She has found someone on the side. He is hot and she wants to have some fun.
It is easy to discern from your (lengthy, chick-like) question that you are the "nice guy, sensitive" type. That's really great, except for the fact that women walk all over that kind of guy. Women are a re apradox in this respect (along with many other...) in that they say they want a nice guy, would really rather marry a nice guy, but most often treat him like crap due to an inate lack of respect for mr nice guy.
To cut to the chase...
Ignore her. Do not wait around for her. Tell her you think some time apart is great because it will give you an opportunity to do a little dating. If she argues about you dating (which she will) you tell her it is not up for debate... and you really appreciate with her idea of a month breather. Then, for gods-sake, don't call her, don't return any of her calls during the month. She will run back to you.

Sorry if this seems a bit juvenile or manipulitive. You need to remember we are dealing with the female mind here!

Answer 3

Sometimes "space" is just space. It doesn't always mean something is wrong. Unless she has given you some reason not to trust her, you should believe that what she says is true. If you think about it, it's actually a very responsible thing to do. She sounds like she has alot on her plate. "Space" is her way of giving herself room/time to work out these issues, without feeling pressure from you, or putting any on you. She could have just as easily broken the relationship off, and went on about her business. The fact that she didn't do that, says to me, that she loves you, and doesn't want to lose you, but needs a lil time to put things, in her life, into perspective. Support her... temporary space is an easy thing to give a person in need.

Answer 4

Dude, space??? just give her the boot. Sounds to me she is playing you like a sap. Man up and dump that broad. There are plenty of women out there that you can use and take advantage of.

Answer 5

I'd give her the time she is asking for.. as a female i can say i have said much the same to my boyfriend at one time. lets put it this way. he has been my husband now for the last two years and our relationship is stronger today thean ever before. good luck i wish you the best

Answer 6

She could be loosing her identity between work, you and family. She needs to reconnect with herself so she can be the person she likes, afterall, she's gonna have to live with herself longer than anyone else!

Answer 7

maybe she only loves you but she isnt in love with you and its her way of telling you that your only as good as a friend to her but not to date

Answer 8

IF YOU LOVE HER, GIVE HER THE MONTH THEN TAKE IT FROM THERE. I REALLY THINK IF SHE LOVED YOU SHE WOULD BE WILLING TO SIT DOWN AND COMMUNICATE WITH YOU ABOUT HER PROBLEMS