I have this major crush on this guy, and i'm not sure if he likes me or not. I don't know what i should do.
2006-07-01 04:00:12 · 12 answers · asked by treehugger 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, let go of that tree. something about a girl hold'n on to a tree can be a turn off. second, it's the 21st century. boldly go where no man ah, person has gone before. Lay it on the line. He'll eather wet his jeans & run home to mom, in which case you don't need him, or he's going think your pretty cool (brave) and be impressed and you certianly will get his attention if you don't have it already. I've seen to many nice girls loose out wondering if he likes me or not, while some other young lady has the ****s ah, nerve to take that first step. why waste the next 3 months wondering? if it's going to be, it's going to be. if not, you got 3 more month and a few more crushes you could be working on. The girls that would surprize me were often some of the better relationship i ever had. and no doubt ended up being many of my best friends, if nothing else. I often had no idea certain young ladies even knew i was alive (and the other way around) until they let me know they were interested. and if you do boldly let him know, and he is a jerk about it, so what? a jerk will always be a jerk, cute or not. jerks always loose in the end. go for it.
2006-07-01 04:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by franky_the_j 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
a man is not so much interested in a beautiful woman as he is interested in a woman who is interested in HIM! You don't have to be too aggressive if you're a little shy about being super direct. But spend some time with him. Send him some signals. Watch how he responds. You'll see. Men are not always exactly what you want them to be, but they are not usually very complicated, either.
2006-07-01 11:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmms.. I think you can spend more time talking to him, maybe on the phone for a start? Then you can try to find similarities with him as you two are talking.. then try asking him frankly. 'Coz i always believed in trust and honesty in a relationship,whichever relationship it is, whether it is friendship, romance..all of them requires a lot of trust. Good luck to you. And one more thing to remind you.. it's normal to get a little "extra-self-conscious", however, do not change your orginal self. Be natural around him. Do not act cute/adorable. Good luck to you. and Never give up(:
2006-07-01 11:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Stunned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with him for sometime n you will know if you really like him. talking to him can get you close to him n maybe you then find out that he too likes you. Best of luck!
2006-07-01 11:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Silvermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, talk to him, get to know him better. make small talk first, n if he asks You out, then i'm sure he likes You. if he's friendly, i'm sure things will take off from there. all the best.
2006-07-01 11:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i was in the same situation (but i got ovr the guy) just hang out w/ him a lot then you'll get to kno him. you could ask him if he wants to go somewhere w/ you if he doesnt ask you first.
2006-07-01 11:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age. But I'd ask him if he'd like to go get a coke, coffee, a drink (depending on age and circumstances) sometime. It's not like asking him on a date, but it is letting him know you'd like to get to know him better.
2006-07-01 11:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with him alot and get to know him before you do anything else and get him to know you and your heart will tell you if it is meant to be!
2006-07-01 11:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing some investigations(ask his friends)and pay extra attention to the way he looks at you and the way he acts around you
2006-07-01 11:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things just dont fall on ur lap by them selfs ok.
if u want him them tell him how u feel or find some one who knows him and find out how he feels.
2006-07-01 11:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋