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There are shed loads of these kinds of questions...
The common ones are:
Can I get pregnant from kissing/a blow jbo
Getting fingered
If he pulls out before he comes
he was in me but didn't come can i be pregnant
etc etc
Why the **** don't all parents and teachers teach children these answers before they become teenagers??? Bit late after.
Likewise given that teenagers are fertile and have hormones and feelings...
Why don't parents put their own kids on the bill from first date and make sure the pills are taken themselves no differnt to a diabetic taking insulin?
How many teaches does someone have to batter likewise parents for holding back vital info and not doing their job before all the kids are taught EVERYTHING AND I MEAN EVERYTHING
2006-07-01 03:47:57 · 10 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You expect a dog to chase cats
you expect a cat to catch birds
you expect a teenager to fall for someone and feelings drive them to sex to end the pain inside them
Thats what being grown up means and responsibility... Just like its the teacher/parents fault if they leave something dangerous lying around a a five your old picks it up and hurts themselves...
why bring up kids so unbeleivably thick they actually believe they wont get pregnat if the guy withdraws or they think you can get pregnant from a ********...
You would not allow a kid to be that thick in maths, science, or other qualifications so why not something more important.?
2006-07-01 03:51:12 · update #1
WHO KNOWS BELOW IS CLESRLY AN IDIOT WHO FAILED BIOLOGY.
If telling kids about sex actually made them want to do it I could turn you gay with pictures of naked guys/girls and a packet of 3.
go rent out the film blue lagoon...
people have sex as they have hormones and therefore feelings end of story
2006-07-01 04:20:43 · update #2
Angel yes thats the point I do remeber the lies and what we needed to know then.
You talk nabout giggling. thats because you got taught too late, try age 5,6 like kids I know whos parents taught them young... No giggling as no hormones. They gorw up more mature
2006-07-02 05:43:55 · update #3
I agree... it positively horrifies me how many of the young teens at this site appear to be utterly clueless. I started talks with all of my children at an early age. Just before something would be coming up. I had the (nocturnal emissions) talk with my boys at about 8 or so years of age. When my daughter started showing signs that menses was just around the corner, I had that discussion with her. To this day, if any of my children have a question, they will come to me with it,.My daugher is 29, married with three children of her own now, and she still calls me with all kinds of questions. She wants to raise her children the way I raised her. They know that I will not come unglued. That I will explain, and re-explain until they are satisfied. And they know I will not lie to them.
We sure don't want them learning from their friends!!! We have already seen what they think!!! It is our duty as parents to make sure our children understand, not only the changes happening in their bodies, but why they are happening. And the consequences of their uninformed decisions fall on our shoulders.
We wouldn't send a soldier out with a gun, when he had no idea how to use one. Why do we send our children out to life, without a clue?
2006-07-01 04:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by diane_b_33594 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There will still be girls getting pregnant at a young age even with better sex education. However, I do agree with some of what you said. It wouldn't hurt to get every girl on the pill from an early age. It would make them get used to it even if they weren't sexually active yet and really, asking some of the questions I have seen, surely if they believe they are old enough to do those things, they ought to know abiut any consequences they might face. My 6 year old asked me yesterday how babies got inside the mummy. My mum found a book suitable for his age which gave him appropriate information. Surely, if there is that kind of information which a 6 year old can understand, there must be other sources for older children so there is no excuse even if the parents or the child are worried about talking about it.
2006-07-01 10:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forget - they're kids! Adults make mistakes, why do we expect children to be able to cope responsibly?
Also, I think most of the kids get too much information - it goes over their head. For the record:
I answered each and every question my kids asked
I was open and honest and unafraid. I even explained to mu daughter and her friends (you can ask my mother anything!) what an orgasm was.
But they're still kids and the thing they need to learn is actually, not to have sex until they're mature!
BTW - one of the things I told my daughter was: You're 12, if you save sex you will fall pregnant because the only women who don't are those married women who are financially secure!
She's 14 - I'm not ready to breathe a sigh of relief yet..
2006-07-02 04:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you, nowadays kids are getting pregnant younger and younger (and a lot of the time they really are kids!)
How can someone educate a baby when they aren't yet an adult?
Is an 11 year old responsible enough to look after a child?
It's such a shame to see people throwing their lives away.
And a lot of the time, they don't even know how to look after the kids properly!!
2006-07-01 03:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sex is still a taboo in western society. Schools are afraid to teach it in any depth for fears of offending parents moral values and parents shy away through embarrasment or their own thoughts of "oh she isnt old enough yet." Despite this, teenagers still have hormonal urges and will keep having accidents
2006-07-01 03:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by enigma_variation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, where you ever a kid yourself?
We never listened in sex ed, it was a chance to sit at the back and make dirty jokes, luckily enough our parents filled us in way before that, but some people might find it hard to talk about that kind of stuff.
As for your comment about the pill, did you know that being on it for just 5 years can increase your risk of breast cancer?
Im not going to push that on my daughters, its a personal choice.
Next you'll be suggesting we fit our 11 year olds with a coil!!
2006-07-02 03:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by angel louie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots more will get pregnant and for the very reasons you gave....parents too lazy,scared, or uninformed themselves to teach their children or even to buy a book about sex for teens, so we will continue to have babies raising babies. I bet also many of these children will be a burden we taxpayers will have to deal with
2006-07-01 04:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good, because if children are taught these things they start experimenting, and it is not good to take the pill, it may change your cycle, they have to know the effects too..
2006-07-01 03:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowledge is power after all!!
2006-07-01 03:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having said that, you don't have to be misinformed to be misinformed.
2006-07-01 03:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by kissshot85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋