me and my girlfrend, decided to sleep together the other day. as it was our first time with any one(we were both virgins), neither of us knew what to expect from the other, we decided to take it slowly, and she said that i was the one leading it all. so we had quite a bit of foreplay, and so on, but when it came to me sticking it in(i was wearing a condom), she said it was painfull, so i took it out, she then started to bleed. i was just wondering, was the bleeding my fault or is it a normal thing to happen on her first time?
2006-07-01 02:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
right, she said it hurt, and i guess beacuse its "big" i'm about 2 fingers in girth, and when she asked me to finger her, when the fingers went in horizontaly, she was ok, when they went in verticaly, she said it hurt too. my penis also seemed to be much bigger than when i'm normaly erect, in length and girth, so would it have been that??
2006-07-01 02:43:19 · update #1
Some girls do bleed the first time. Why it was painful though is for her to answer. Tell her to make sure to get a check up.
2006-07-01 02:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by musiclover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bleeding is normal for first timers. I will not say she wont bleed again maybe not as bad. I'm glad you both decided on protection.
Try using something on the condom to help with entering. The dryness of a condom makes it bad and for the first time I know it hurt.
2006-07-01 09:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Shay~Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for a virgin girl to bleed for the first few times then she'll get used to it. If you didn't withdraw it just waited and let it settle then slowly moving in and out she should start to feel pleasure.
2006-07-01 10:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by marky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blood is normal and the first time its normal to hurt by the girl... Haven't u listened is science class? By the first time it hurts then she schouldn't bleed anymore...
2006-07-01 09:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some women bleed on their first time. You see, you tore her hymen so it is to be expected that she bleeds because of it. :)
2006-07-01 09:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally normal. she won't bleed or hurt next time.
2006-07-01 09:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG,!! what she said!! good luck next time,,
2006-07-01 09:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by wanders1111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yes if you 2 didn't know that you should of had sex!!!!!!!
2006-07-01 09:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by frenchvanilla414@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal; normal; normal
She's normal...your normal...the situation is normal.
2006-07-01 09:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋