one girl fall in love with me , but i cannot tell her i love her because i sick .?

Question

i love the girl too.... she really crazy of me , i am a sick man and i donnot want she wait for me maybe i cannot give her a better life and better future ... she cry for me because i donnot want to meet her .... but when we talk over the phone .. everything we can talk and we are happy to share our daily and life experience ...and i can say that if without my sick ... we can be the perfect match....so i really need advice from who is willing share their experince to me ... Thanks

Answer 1

If you are going to continue talking to her like this, you have to tell her about your illness, and explain that you have been avoiding her because you feel you cannot give her a good life. I mean, it may be you can give her a better life than you think, but at any rate, she does have a right to know. And yeah, it may not work out well, she may well stop being crazy about you(1).

But at least if you tell her, you'll be able to feel good knowing you did the right thing. And who knows? Maybe you will continue your friendship, maybe she won't mind your illness and you'll be able to be together? Heck, I've even heard of people who are paralyzed from the neck down being happily married...(2)

Again, you won't find out unless you tell her and ask what she thinks...

Answer 2

I do....Im sharing the same situation with you......i know what the feeling inside your heart.Cheered up brother.
Tried this and maybe you will found that it will be much easier....love is about sharing and giving.We are in giving position.And allowed me to said this....i dont need to owned her but as long as im still breathing and when i know that she is happy,then i'll be very happy also.We had grown up and has to learn blessing....Hoped that my advice will cheered you a little.....Think in positive way, friend.

Answer 3

if you tell her about it i know she will love you more because u are honest...and sharing her your sadness and happyness the relation will be stronger than before..if i knew my bf is sick i would still be with him..and we would make things in a way that he wont feel his sickness :) Take care..and go on no matter what!! ;)

Answer 4

you have a few years left enjoy. do what you want to do.just be honest with her and tell her youre condition. allow yourself to be happy. you live only once

Answer 5

TALK ....talk ur heartout....tell he ur problem....tell her tht u love her...atleast she can be at peace...TALK YOUR HEART OUT