I've never lead a girl on. i upfront 100% no bull from me from day one. So why do they still want me around after i tell them it's been fun but i don't feel there is any future in a go nowhere relationship and we should go our own way?
2006-07-01 01:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by franky_the_j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is always the best way to go. They still want you because even though you have told them goodbye they still have feelings for you. Hurting someones heart isnt a good feeling so dont be to harsh on them. Someday you have have yours hurt. You did the right thing by telling them goodbye if you dont want the relationship any more but try to be a little sensitive to their feelings also.
2006-07-01 02:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I will probably get sh$t from some women for this, but as one who used to do the same thing a lot of women want what we can't have, it's the same as telling a child not to open that cabinet, you just know they are going to walk right over and open it. Bet you found yourself wanting the ones who just quietly left your life, right? They are the ones with their self esteem in place, as any self respecting woman or man would back off after being told there is no future. Good policy being honest, keep it up there are so few who are able to do it.
2006-07-01 09:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lie to her just tell her in a diffrent way thats its over cuz the way that ur tellin them aint workin very well u got to tell them this isnt workin out so i need to move on so i dont want to be wit u anymore that should get her away but always be honest that is the key in a realationship
2006-07-01 09:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish every guy i knew was 100% honest about relationships, it would save so much time
2006-07-01 09:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever lie to your girlfriend. She'll figure it out sooner or later that it's a lie.
2006-07-01 09:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Katie, Goddess of Happiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they still feel something for you. its hard to say goodbye especially if you fall really hard. you go into this stage called denial. if its easy for you to say goodbye, it isnt for some of us
2006-07-01 09:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never lie!
2006-07-13 15:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Dani California 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i for one like it when a guy is truthful i hate to be lead on.
2006-07-09 16:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know id probably be honest cause thats wat they say they want but usually there's a little bitching involved and breaking ups so beats me
2006-07-01 09:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by a.johnson91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋