I'm 19 and she's 39. we've already done it but I feel I let my mom down.
2006-07-01 01:27:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no i do not think it is good... and your moms best friend is not much of a friend... and i think if your mom knew she would feel the same way.. how could a woman of that age do that anyway...i think i would try and stay away from this woman and see people your own age...i am sure there are other view points but i would not like it if my son saw my friends.. my youngest is 24 and he would not even think about being with any of my friends...why would you want to sleep with this older woman before someone your own age???/
2006-07-01 01:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions....Would you want your mom to sleep with your best friend? Think years down the road....would you want your 19 year old child to sleep with your 39 year old best friend? If it weren't for the person being you mom's best friend, there would not be an issue. However, your mom is bound to find out eventually, what kinds of problems would that cause between the two of you. If you are serious about this person, talk to your mother, and see how she would feel about you sleeping with someone so much older than you. Then if she doesn't have a heart attack on the spot, slowly bring up the subject of this older person being her friend.
2006-07-01 02:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Fire Storm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a time when the thought of that would be weird. Unfortunately now a days the age gap between parents and children has shrunk dramatically. Out of respect for your mom I would advise you to tell her that it happened and your intentions on whether it plans on happening again. If you two are close, it will make you closer. (not close enough to have her join in). If it makes for an uncomfortable situation, I would say to let it go. It is not a relationship, it was curiosity. Not worth loosing the respect of your mom.
2006-07-01 01:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by angel739902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have a question. is your mom's friend a m or f? well i think that bye you sleeping with mom's friend might cause problems between you and her if she fines out. don't you think so? tell what do you look like?
2006-07-01 01:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by james_duke63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine, so don't worry about it. The only thing I'd suggest is that you invite your mom into the bed too for a threesome.
2006-07-01 01:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no imagine in future ur 18 yearold daughter sleeping with your 38 year old friend but if u get down like that i guess i wouldnt though
2006-07-01 01:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by a.johnson91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends, or you honestly like each other or is it simply ecause shes's an older woman and makes you feel more like a man, and your young so it makes her fell younger, its about feelings if you truly like each other than by all means go for it, (i am 20 and my bf's 34) but if its just for pleasure I think i would find someone new!
2006-07-01 01:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by ashley1586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great, man. Head for the hills if your mom finds out!!
2006-07-01 01:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did and you need o stop mainly because you and her are not married anyway and y create so much tension in your home and especially where your mom is so closely involved you need to pray if you want to talk to me email me through yahoo answers.
Justin
2006-07-01 01:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u have let her down. dont do it again. this friend of ur mom will get u in one fine mess.
2006-07-01 01:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by tobeornottobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋