you are in love with someone. for years. then one day you discover that he/she was cheating on you all these years. and he/she is going to make a realationship with someone else. ... in this kind of a circumstance i have seen people commiting suicide! what do you think ?
2006-07-01 00:48:55 · 14 answers · asked by nita_desai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been there and did try to commit suicide many times and almost died many of those times and he come to take care of me just to leave to be with her again. sucks and doesn't solve anything. Just give him up and find a real man is my opinion.
2006-07-01 00:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is worth you killing yourself over. You must always remember that THEY are the ones who did something wrong not you. You can go on and have a happy life with someone who will truly love you. if you are thinking about suicide then talk to someone. Call a hot-line or see a therapist. Remember it's not you who should suffer for the other persons wrongs. Killing yourself will only hurt you and you are the innocent one in all this. Get help have friends rally around you make sure you affirm to yourself that THEY are the scumbags. Instead of turning it on yourself you have the right to get angry at them. They treated you very badly and that person is is never truly going to have a happy existence if they don't change who they are. You are fine there is nothing wrong with you. The only people you will hurt by doing this is yourself and the people who truly DO care about you. That person doesn't deserve to have a life taken because of them. They are not worth it. Stay strong and realize that life is too precious to throw away over someone like that. It's just not worth it. You may be hurting but everything does pass. It just takes time. A much better revenge would be to go and live a full and happy life without them.
2006-07-01 07:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by IckleMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that and have ended up still here and im glad cause you cant let a guy/girl riun your life. Take it from experence just go find another good caring person then that other girl/guy will come back cause they reliszed what an idoit they were for letting you go in the first place and when they do just ignore them or say i found someone that really cares about me and wont cheat on me. â¥
2006-07-01 08:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This only means that u are yet to come across true love and thats all. when u find it, u will thrive in the waves of happiness and positive change that it brings to your life. The point heres not to give up untill u find true love hang on and beleive that u fill find true love one day and it will come true. So move away from negative thoughts and wait patiently...am sure ur wish will come true..dont lose hope, keep the faith and all the best
2006-07-01 07:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by rahul s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i have seen that situation, and suicide is common if that happens, i mean going through life, loving someone, believing they love you back, and one day finding out that all the love they claimed to have for you was nothing but a lie, that hurts, being lied to by someone you love, you just want the pain to stop, you based your life on the simple fact that you loved them and they loved you, and come to find, that fact is a lie. that will cause you to feel like your life is a lie, like you have no reason to live. but suicide isnt the answer, it only hurts more people, talk out the issue, you will always have the scars from that pain, but one day they will fade enough for you to move on and find someone who wont lie to you
2006-07-01 07:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idiots only find suicide! Suicide is not a solution for solving problem. If it will happen in my life I will discover a good better half.
2006-07-01 07:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that for one, if if you werent doing any sideline cheers yourself then the other person is wrong, and ignorant.. I say ignorant because they just let you dangle thier and because 97% of relationships that start out as back yard games, fail. And remember that suicide is not the answer, your obviously better then them, why should you be the one to leave right?
2006-07-01 07:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by evilpoutyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ppl that commiting suicide is just Stupid unless it for a worth Cause like if your a mother and your son/daugter die but even at that thats still stupid and although i don't believe in Love i did have some one cheat on me for years i just told them to Get lost and have fun in thair NEW life (forget about it and move on)
2006-07-01 07:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow-Renegade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-01 07:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by maddogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they might have saved themselves a whole lifetime of grief.
the pain can be overwhelming at first and if you cant deal with it (or be forced to deal with it) then... i could see why someone would commit suicide.
love can ruin your whole life. no one ever tells you that. i dont thinkg i would ever commit suicide, but i wouldnt blame anyone that did.
2006-07-01 07:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by sean_mchugh6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋