Do you think my boyfriend should be jealous of this? I don't do anything to instigate the crushes but I do help them and they sometimes call or invite to their houses. I am a foreign teacher in a foreign country.
2006-07-01 00:30:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs to get over it.
2006-07-01 00:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by FORNIDO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you can not control who does and does not have a "crush" on you. You state that you do nothing to instigate your students, I would advise keeping it that way. Helping your students is one thing, going to their house without the invite of their parents or them coming to your house is another. I would rethink your decision there. Now as for the boyfriend being jealous, men, by nature are territorial. Not always possessive, but territorial. His being jealous suggests insecurities. Do your best to assure him that he is the one you want and he is the one you are with. You can't control his jealousy any more than you can control your student's crushes. If, after making all attempts to ease his mind, his jealousy persists, you are going to have to decide if you can tolerate such behavior in the man you are with. Good luck.
2006-07-01 00:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all that's going on with teachers and students, you have lost your mind to have them call your house much less go to their house or meet them any where, not only are you going to loose your boyfriend but also your job, your citizenship and will end up in jail for your actions, don't take this for a joke you are walking on very ,very thin air, put a stop to the crushes, why in the world would a teacher meet a student who has a crush on them? you are going to reap some very hard times if you don't put a stop to this madness, your boyfriend is not the problem, your as is going to jail.
2006-07-01 00:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by JCJC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful in how you approach your students. Be as professional as possible. That means you may want to have them call the school, not your personal phone. Your boyfriend could be picking up that little flirtacious nature you have which is cause for alarm, or he may need to look at himself and why he is so jealous- is he feeling insecure about the relationship? Some discussion between you two needs to happen.
2006-07-01 00:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by billionaire2b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jUst tell ur boyfriend that once u entered to yahoo.com to answers section & u asked us this qs:I am a teacher and my boyfriend is jealous that I have many male students have crushes on me!? & a female from a foreign eastern country called cheeba said :OH HELL WOULD U GROW UP FOR GOD SAKE!!
2006-07-01 00:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would a teacher go to thier students houses unless ur doing home tutoring? u shouldnt if ur not doing home tutor. its not right. dont do anything that i wouldnt do. pupils have crushes on thier tutors but thats a phase they go through in life. they just teenagers and ur boyfriend is concerned. u are aware of the laws of teacher and pupil relationship. just want o make it clear. dont go to thier houses. keep it proffessional. not right
2006-07-01 00:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
student-instructor relationships ARE technically unlawful, because of the very incontrovertible reality that they can make the instructor provide the student a larger grade, which i in my opinion trust is ridiculous because in the adventure that they prefer you, they are going to do what they prefer with grades even if there's a courting or no longer. yet if you're uncomfortable with him, which it type of feels that you're once you're saying you do not discover him pleasing in any respect, you should rfile it.
2016-10-14 00:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he should be in a way - " don't do anything to instigate the crushes but I do help them"
2006-07-01 00:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Me me me me me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a right to be jealous and should be abit worried too if your actually going over their your students' homes... you shouldn't be going to the students homes...if your going there to help them ...THATS WHAT A SCHOOL IS FOR...their Clearly hoping you slip up and become a horny Biatch and spread your legs for them.... so Stop going over their homes and YES your bf has a right and is smart to be jealous
2006-07-01 00:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Iceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your name is Debra LaFave or Mary Kay Lourtneau you're probably okay.
2006-07-01 00:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Scarlett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the boyfriend.Make sure an adult is home before you
go to a students home.
2006-07-01 00:38:37 · answer #11 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋