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I cheated yesterday in the afternoon. I met a married man online who I clicked with and decided to meet him for lunch. Turned out WAY more than lunch.

I have no desire to pursue this other man, but I am supposed to see the boyfriend today. No intentions of telling him, and he has no reason to think that I'd cheat.

If I don't see the boyfriend, he might be suspicious. Need answers of how to keep my secret...

2006-07-01 00:15:22 · 22 answers · asked by Scarlett 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

I would see him, and break it off....you obviously are not completley commited to him. I am very serious, not meaning it in a hurtful way.

2006-07-01 00:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Why? 3 · 2 0

Hunny--

Just go to the Lancome counter at a good department store.

The new Shallow Shaper Mascara is guaranteed to reduce guilt while lengthening and thickening those lashes! And who doesn't want to look great while finding her next victim?

Rock on with your bed-hopping self -- you have only your conscience to deal with -- UNLESS you also get the Weirding Wash Makeup Remover that cleanses worries while getting rid of build-up.

It's really all about the makeup...
:O

2006-07-01 00:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by fitpro11 4 · 0 0

What a story, I guess he forced you into having sexwith him? Your b/f friend deserves better. Your nothing but trash in my book. You should tell him and lethim move on or if he wishes I guess he could stay with you, Not sure why he would want to. What was you doing even talking to another man on the internet? Once a cheater always a cheater.

2006-07-01 00:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0 0

You need to find out what's going on with you, ask your self some important questions, if you think it was just a one time thing you will find out that it's just the beginning of some thing that will get out of control and really do some harm to every one involved. ask God to forgive you and just don't do it again, turn away from that evil now. as far as your boy friend, your heart will guide you, take your time, this is a chance to start over so leave the past in the past and move on. ccrmllc@yahoo.com

2006-07-01 00:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by JCJC 2 · 0 0

Not to be mean but you have some issues to work out. Save your boyfriend a lot of trouble and break it off with him. Then work on yourself. Having sex with a married man is SO wrong. You disgraced yourself, helped him disgrace himself, and victimized his wife and your boyfriend. If you want random sex, do it in a safer manner than on-line. And don't screw over "innocent" people while satisfying yourself. Work on being a better person.

2006-07-01 00:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't mean to sound like a complete *****. But what made you cheat on him? That's really low. If you love him, then why are you cheating on him? It is so disrespectful on so many levels. If you cheated on him, why are you with him?

You need to tell him or your going to have guilt on the rest of your life. You won't be able to look at him the same anymore.

2006-07-01 00:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Brianne S 2 · 0 0

Suck it up and be a big girl and tell him. There's obviously something going on if you're willing to have a quickie with almost a stranger over lunch. Grow a pair and learn to face the consequences of your choices.

2006-07-01 00:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by IckleMe 3 · 0 0

You should not have done that if you are in love with your boy friend, but anywayz now thatyou are regreting it, let it be like that, from next time be careful, dont tell him it is not the question of suspicion but he will be too much hurt, so keep mum and start being true to yourself from next time

2006-07-01 00:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Cute Girl 2 · 0 0

:/ that sucks. Why on earth are you meeting people online? that's dangerous! and this guy is married. :| Your boyfriend doesn't deserve that. :| come clean if it's killing you.. and i think it is since you are asking a question on here. :| Do what your heart tells you to do. would you want to know if he had cheated on you?


oh and seth don't say such harsh words. :| You know people can do things and stuff. :|

2006-07-01 00:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ginger B 3 · 0 0

It’s either of two things?
You either what to be with him; or not.
Ask your self this and you’ll no if you can face him.

But if you know in your heart that you still want to be with him…
Then face him and forget bout the other guy.

2006-07-01 00:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by Deb 4 · 0 0

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