In throwing a sushi dinner party whats the propper mannerisms and settings?

Question

Trying to throw a sushi dinner party. Just trying to figure out little things to really make it a hit.

Answer 1

Have sushi chef roll sushi in front of the guest to impress and insure freshness

Answer 2

I used to do this often.

Few things we did were:

Really decorate the plate. Don't just put your food on the plate. Arrange it so it looks like an art. You can buy sushi books and try to emulate it.

Make a menu and list the ingredients. People are naturally curious. All of our guests took the menu home and kept it for years.

One time, we did a live demo at the table on how to make the rolls. Also, showing off the tools of the trade, such as mats, mold, and sushi-knife (yes, special knife...) were a hit. People had no idea...

My suggestion is, to relax and not get caught up in proper etiquette and mannerism for sushi. Yes, there are rules in sushi eating in traditional Japan, but does it really matter? I don't think so. It's food. They taste good. It's fun. Just relax and have a good time.

Answer 3

Guests must take off shoes as soon as they enter the house.

Answer 4

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Why should you practice good sushi etiquette?

For the only three reasons that humans do anything nice: to avoid intercultural embarrassment and civil strife, to get snappy service, and to impress the people they make company with.

The Tools
At some of the higher end restaurants the waiter/waitress will provide you with a hot towel at the beginning of the meal. It usually comes in a little basket. Use it to wipe your hands clean before the meal, remember sushi is finger food. When finished place it back in it’s basket and someone will take it out of your way. Don’t worry, you'll also get a napkin for your lap.

They're not toothpicks or drumsticks, they're chopsticks. Don't poke or beat things with them. Actually the real name for chopsticks is hashi. Impress the staff by asking for them by their rightful name. Hashi sometimes come as conjoined twins. Break them apart delicately, and rub them across each other to remove any burrs before you eat. (A burr is a splinter that has not yet left its mother wood and imbedded itself in your flesh.) Some sushi chefs find this offensive, especially in Japan. It may imply that you think the owner is cheap.

How To Use Chopsticks
Think of the chopstick as a pair of prongs, the only difference being that there are two separate parts or sticks. One stick is held in stationary position and the other is moved.

1. Take one stick first and hold it in your right hand in the way you would normally hold a pencil. If the stick has a thick and a thin end, hold it so that the thick end is to the top.
2. Keeping the fingers in this position, turn your hand inward until the stick is horizontal to the table and parallel to your body.
3. Relax your fingers slightly and slide the stick to the left until your thumb and forefinger are clamping the stick at about its mid-point. The thumb should not be bent or rigidly straight. All your fingers should be curved slightly inwards with the middle finger in contact with the underside of the stick and the tip of the middle finger pointing towards your body. The third (ring) finger should be in line with the middle finger but its tip should protrude beyond the middle finger towards your body.
4. Now, take the other stick with your left hand and let the thick end rest on the protruding part of the ring finger of your right hand. Slide the stick towards the right, touching the tip of the middle finger and passing under the thumb until the thick end rests at the base joint of your forefinger. This is the stationary position of this stick, and it should be roughly parallel to the first stick.
5. Alternately bend and extend your forefinger and middle finger, letting the first stick PIVOT at the thumb. The thin tip of the moving stick will touch that of the stationary stick when you bend the two fingers. Don't hold the sticks rigidly. Hardly any pressure or strength is needed to grasp things at the tip of the chopsticks.

Those Crazy Little Plates and Stuff
There will be a small ceramic block called a hashi oki on which to set your hashi when not in use. To the right of your place setting, there will be a small oblong ceramic saucer which will hold the soy sauce, or shoyu. DO NOT pour the shoyu straight from the jug onto your sushi. Pour the shoyu into its proper saucer — a small oblong dish called a kozara — and dip the sushi into it.

The Dining Method
The Soup
With Miso Soup (misoshiru) or Clear Broth (suimono), you may use your chopsticks to pick out the solid pieces. Feel free to drink the soup as you would a cup of tea. Slurping noises are not considered bad manners, so have at it.

The Condiments
The thinly-sliced pink ginger on your plate is called gari. Eat just a slice between pieces of sushi to re-enliven your palate. The shredded white radish, called daikon, is for cleansing your palate between different orders. Wasabi is the little green chunk of horseradish paste that some often mix with shoyu as a sauce for dipping sushi. If you aren't used to eating wasabi, be forewarned: when eaten full strength, it has an electric effect on the sinuses that can make a strong man weep openly.

Passing sushi and sashimi
NEVER pass sushi to another diner using your hashi. Pass them the plate so they can pick it up themselves. Always pick the sushi up off the plate with the other end of the hashi - the end that doesn't go in your mouth. And of course, never yell "go long!" or "incoming!" and then huck sushi across the table.

Eating sushi and sashimi
Pick up the sushi, turn and dip the fish part, not the rice, into the soy sauce-wasabi mixture, and put the whole portion in your mouth, flipping the sushi so that the fish is on your tongue. NEVER bite a piece of sushi in half and put half back on your plate. Always eat the whole thing. And one special note - never leave rice after a meal. It's considered rude to leave food after a meal, but leaving rice is considered especially rude. Sushi is finger food. It's okay to pick it up with your hands if you like. Sashimi, however, is not. Only use your hashi to eat sashimi.

Sushi bar etiquette
NEVER smoke in a sushi bar, even if there is an ashtray provided. I know, it sounds crazy, but think about it: smoke will interfere with the flavor of everyone's sushi. Therefore, to smoke is to be disrespectful to the chef's work. You may be feeling gregarious after a few shots of sake. If so, offer a drink to your sushi chef. He doesn't expect it, but if you have a drink with him, he will toast with Kampai! (to your health).

Final nuggets
Never expect the chef to handle money. Those who handle food do not handle money. This rule will make perfect sense to you if you've ever been to a strip club. Even though some of these rules may seem extreme to Westerners, remember that your hosts will probably not call any breach of etiquette to your attention. To do so would be considered rude.

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Sounds like fun!!!! Hope these help!

Oops found something else that might be helpful!
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Traditionally, the Japanese eat at a low table and sit on the floor. It is good etiquette to sit with your legs folded under you, but it is hard on the knees! You can also sit cross legged, but in either case, always keep your back straight in good posture! One should never crouch over the table.

Before eating, you say “itadakimasu”, which means “I gratefully receive”.

Spread out before each diner will be a bowl for rice, a bowl for miso soup, a plate of a type of protein, and several small side dishes of vegetables. All should be eaten little by little, never completing one dish first before moving on to the next.

You will notice a set of chopsticks positioned parallel to the edge of the table, just a few centimeters away. These will normally be your only utensil to eat with. Japanese style chopsticks are made from bamboo, and are tapered to a point at the end. They can be lacquered or not, smooth or slightly textured. Often, they are decorated where the hand holds them, and never decorated at the end where they pick up food.

Normally, soup is eaten with the meal, rather than before as is the custom for Western meal. You will never find a spoon if a small bowl of soup is served, like miso or clear soup. You can sip this soup straight from the bowl, making a slight sipping sound, like a cup of tea. Use your chopsticks to pick out the solid pieces.

However, for bigger bowls of soup such as udon or soba, a spoon will be provided for you to sip from rather than straight from the bowl. Typically for women, the noodles can be placed delicately on the spoon to eat them, rather than slurping them out of the bowl. This may be difficult, but it is only necessary if you want to appear elegant and dignified. If not, slurp them out of the bowl!

If you have a small bowl of rice, it is eaten as an accompaniment to the main dishes. The main dishes are flavoured in a way that the rice should not be flavoured as well. Therefore, never pour sauce over your bowl of rice, since it will affect the flavour of the main dishes.

When picking things up from dishes meant to be shared with others, use the other end of the chopsticks.

If you’re not using your chopsticks, you can place them across your plate with the tips to the left. Alternatively, some restaurants provide a chopstick holder to rest them on. You can make one yourself if the chopsticks come in a paper sleeve.

At the end of the meal, you can say “gochisosama deshita”, which means “I thank you for the meal”.

Don’ts!

Never blow your nose at the dinner table. If you must, leave the table or turn away.
Remember to never stick your chopsticks straight up into a bowl of rice. It is how rice is offered to the dead.
Never suck on your chopsticks, or lick them.
Never pull dishes toward you with your chopsticks.
Never leave even a grain of rice in your bowl or on your plate. Eat every last grain, as rice is considered extremely valuable.
Never wave around your chopsticks, or gesture with them.
Never stab your food to pick it up.