paternity test tells all . .. . .
2006-06-28 17:11:43
·
answer #1
·
answered by Frodo 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
It might be a joke. I'd ask your fiance if he knows that this pregnancy is for real. If he doesn't, have him ask for proof from a doctor. If she is really pregnant, then you're going to need to be ready to be second priority for a while. You will need to let him know if you start feeling jealous or neglected because you ARE important too. You do not have to adopt this child, but you should probably consider it. If he asks to post-pone the wedding, give him a time limit, such as a month to get his stuff together. If he goes over that limit, make it known that the wedding will NOT be post-poned any longer, and if he can't deal, then he needs to make a decision. This child will be as much a part of your life as his, so don't hang back or ignore his/her existence. Don't get overly involved if you haven't adopted the child, because the mother probably won't like that. Congratulations on your wedding and I hope everything works out!
2006-06-29 00:18:07
·
answer #2
·
answered by lostinabook24 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
Well you would get more answers if you posted this question in the right area, so maybe re-post this in family and relationships. A paternity test is the only answer, he should say to the girl that if the baby is his he is more than happy to do his part and be a father to the child, but that does not mean he is going to resume his relationship with her. He does not have to be with the woman to be a father to the child. As to whether you adopt or not, that's up to you, but would that not depend on whether he gets custody or not?
2006-06-29 09:00:49
·
answer #3
·
answered by sparkleythings_4you 7
·
0⤊
0⤋
Of course it's a stunt. and if you don't want to go through the hardest years of your life -- run, baby run!
Adopting another woman's child means you'll be baby sitting, feeding and cleaning this child while his mother goes on with her life without a care in the world plus you will have to sit back and play second fiddle when she decides to come over to visit. ask me I know. Even though I have come to love my step-child as my own son, looking back, I would not do it again.
The question is, do you love this man enough to go through hell and back?
2006-06-30 11:34:02
·
answer #4
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
All I can say to you Is the question he asked you...would you adopt this child..to me sounds like the child is his.or why would he even mention this. I say before you get in deeper leave this guy your six sense is talking to you and you have known him for 10 years....you already have drama..and if it is his kid, you will have her around all the time..thing is it is up to you if you want her in your life ....I say Run fast...girl
2006-06-29 00:18:21
·
answer #5
·
answered by qdrama1956 5
·
0⤊
0⤋
Maybe. Ask to see the sonogram of the baby and have a paternity test to make sure
2006-06-29 00:12:25
·
answer #6
·
answered by ashleyshoresstr8g 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
Maybe she is just saying that to get him back ; but if she serious and you really love him be that woman that would be by your man side no matter what . Don't give up on him then that would be her opportunity to get him back.GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-29 00:16:24
·
answer #7
·
answered by inaijah 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
I think that she should find professional help and also have her take blood test to find out if she is telling her the truth on if it is true and if it is really his and if she is and it is his then you need to rethink on marrying him.
2006-06-29 00:16:57
·
answer #8
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
I love answer # 2!!!! Way to go! But mine is also important! Why are you asking in the ethnic food categorie????
2006-06-29 00:15:31
·
answer #9
·
answered by halton13316 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
I am confused, first you have a husband, a girlfriend and now another boyfriend?
2006-06-29 00:12:19
·
answer #10
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
Tell him to tell her that you will adopt her kid... b/c u love him.
2006-06-29 13:44:32
·
answer #11
·
answered by lolitakali 6
·
0⤊
0⤋