its quite hard you know...i dont know what reason should i tell my bf,,,all i know is im tired with him...i want to meet other people,another experience...well,believe it or not but we never engage into sex...he respect me that much but i just hate him coz his not that handsome like keanu reeves but girls used to run after him and thats what makes me hate him...im quite selfish when it comes to love coz i want him to be with me only...god!i admit i love him somehow but what am i gonna do now?...should i stop this?
2006-06-09 22:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Four years is a long time to be in a relationship that has not progressed to a deeper commitment like marriage. Are you not having sex due to religious or moral reasons? If so, then it is likely you feel like this thing is going nowhere.
Hating him because he's not handsome like Keanu Reeves is not a valid reason for leaving him.
If you love him, see if you can arrange to be married, that is, if you're tired of being at this stage of the relationship that seems to be stagnating.
BUt girls will continue to try to get his attention. May get worse after marriage. He needs to assure you that you're the one for him. He needs to know how you feel. It's only fair that he is made aware of your 'hatred'. Talk to him before you dump him.
2006-06-09 23:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by stacey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First decide wether you want to quit or still be with him.As u said he respects you better way you talk to him.You mentioned that he is not that handsome, but still girls run after him.I would like to know what makes him so attractive....money ??? It seems u really love him,taste him if he also love u as u do don't think of leaving him.Purposefully increase the gap between u,if he really loves u he will try to come closer to you.
2006-06-09 23:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you don't miss what you got until it's gone or someone else has what you use to have. He sounds like a good guy. Maybe you need to see what those other girls are seeing. Take him along with you on your journeys of meeting other people and making new experiences. Don't be selfish.
2006-06-09 23:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by lamont b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like love to me, but what do I know, eh? I do know you should just be honest with the guy. No need in making him suffer the company of someone who doesn't care about him anymore and no need in making yourself suffer the company of someone whose lost their novelty.
2006-06-09 22:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him your feelings... maybe by doing that you can talk to each other anf find a solution on what are you going to do with your relationship
2006-06-09 22:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by caLai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what u wrote down
2006-06-09 22:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK...I am going through the same problem.
2006-06-09 22:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth,and tell him,that's easy.
2006-06-09 22:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by roncat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋