Now the problem is, my parent says they don't like my girl and said i should choose between ending the relationship and leaving the house. I really love my gf and can dump her because they say so.Besides they didn't say anything specificaly that they don't like in her. my girl loves and believes so much in me and i don't want to break her heart. I left home four days after and found my own house. Since then my parents refuses to have anything to do with me, they don't even pick my call when I call the house and my father said I should not near his house anymore. Am wrong in the action I took?
2006-06-09 21:59:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay it all depends, do you love her, are yall gonna get married, if she supports u more than ur parents then go for it. Besides, ur gona have to leave the house at some point in ur life to have ur own life and be a man. And yea u took a risk, cuz u never know wat the future holds and u guys could breakup, but point is u left the house as ur own man with a life, and ur parents should cut the cord and accept ur decisions. Its time to make ur own decisions and they should do no more than say okay. Its understandable why they said what they said. My fiance and i been living together for awhile, we have a son and every decision we make is for the best for him, and we are HAPPY. So if our family dont approve, then they are losing out, we never told them to divorce or leave anyone they were with or else. But u should try to contact them a couple of more times, try to talk to them if theyll listen, but it sounds like they just wont let go, but both parties should consider each other and why they feel the way they do. IF you and ur girl are happy then great. this has nothing to do with ur girlfriend, its between u and them, and this can make ur relationship with ur gf and parents stronger if yall make a final decision of the end result. i.e. mom and dad are gonna do this, my gf and i are gonna do that, the end. Just remember they all love you.
2006-06-09 22:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 14⤊ 4⤋
I have some very close friends who are in a similar situation, but i happen to know all the details of why they did this same thing to their son. I agree w/ THOSE parents because we all see what this girl is up to and the son just cannot.
HOWEVER, i think you did the right thing for yourself. Without explaining their reasons your parents gave you an ultimatum which you met straight on. Now that they're not feeding you, clothing you, sheltering you or educating you they really don't have a say in how you live your life. You're showing them that you're taking responsibility for yourself, so what if they don't want to take your calls? Live your life, worry about yourself. When you're taking care of business, paying your own bills, no one has the right to dictate how you live.
2006-06-10 05:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Boy!
Your in deep sh*t..
Here is the family that raised you from a pup and this is the respect you show them..
Come onnn man..! You found this gal you can always find another.. and maybe even better.. cutier, prettier..wants to go all the way with you and will not say its yours should it ever go that far with the new one.
Go back to Mum and Dad and tell them your very sorry and you never had the smell of snatch on your nose before..
Think about it Mannn where are you if the two of you do go ur separate ways..?
2006-06-10 05:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Angus. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong or right either. You made a choice knowing it would end the family ties. either get rid of the girl or get on with your life. If you are old enough to make your own way then do it and don't look back. What happened yesterday can not be changed.
2006-06-10 05:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong my father did the same thing i am 24 two kids one of which is my fiance and we now life across the street from each other its imbarable so my advice is stay on the other side of town but dont give up on them, i havent and hes SLOWLY getting better. you just have let them belive what they want but if your happy be happy they cant live your life for you.
2006-06-10 05:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not. if your parents thought there was something wrong with her that made her bad for you they'd be able to say exactly what it was and they would still talk to you. they are just having some sort of stupid personal issues that they are taking out on you.
2006-06-10 05:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. Your parents are the ones with the problems. You did nothing wrong, you just got jackass parents.
2006-06-10 05:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong. They want to run your life and good for you not letting them. Hope in the future they change and will talk to you again. good luck
2006-06-10 05:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the ability to stand on your own leg then there is nothing wrong in your action.If not you are wrong
Regards
S.VISWANATHAN B.E
2006-06-10 05:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by viswanathan_1000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u have 2 live your own life not theirs
2006-06-10 05:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋