How to get a girl to notice, or like you.?

Question

Any advise for someone who is very shy with girls. There is a girl very beautiful, and i just can't seem to get the guts to talk to her. I can usually talk to anyone but this girl just melts me. I've tried to talk to her in real life and all that comes out of my mouth is either ugg, or be back in a second gotta go to the restroom. I've tried everything, but just cannot seem to get words out of my mouth. My friends have told me we would be a awesome couple but i can't seem to get the word's out to let her know how i feel about her. I really just want to make things perfect.
I forgot to mention things

See there is this thing, where it looks like i stalk her or something, whitch i dont. I just happen to see her everywhere. Also a few friends told her a pretty embarrassing story about me. I just dont want to mess up with her. I want everything to be right. No other girl makes me feel the way she does. This may sound pretty corny but i just know she is the girl i want to be with.

Answer 1

I see your problem is nervous.Be BRAVE!Just be yourself,try to open your mouth and talk to her.You can even tell her about how your feeling is now to her.You can even say "hey,hi,I'm (your name) and you are?","are you free?I'm bored here,wanna talk?"...somthing like that.A good conversation can make a girl talk much.Try to get near her again and talk to her and also remember to get her phone number as well! good luck;-)

Answer 2

I know this sounds lame, but I've always noticed the guy that always seemed just a bit different from the rest. And it always helps that whoever that guy has been has always made me feel completely at ease while at the same time making me feel special. I know it's really not much 'hard core help', but you seem to be pretty earnest to do things right, and you can trust me when I say that it'll all fall into place at the right time, you just can't force it, things like this take time so take it and do it right just don't be afraid. If you don't get this one, theres plently more out there and maybe the next one will be right :)

Answer 3

Hey dude.

Tell yourself you just want to be her friend.

Honestly, "approaching" is so unstable a method for really gaining interest, at least where I live.

Im with the previous person above, give it time because if you walk up and start asking her out you most likely will get a "no" or some other evasive female game...even if she thought you were cute.

Especially now that she might start playing the "eww your a stalker" game.

Just keep yourself busy and find things to do, maybe she will notice and ask you about it. Then you are in a bit more control.

Answer 4

Make up ur mind and be bold about what u want the way u sounds makes me feel u are a little child cos is only a little child dat will not walk to one and ask for something dat belongs to him or her.

In her case go to her and let her know how u feel about her and so if she too loves you then you know dat both of you will make a good couple.

Answer 5

I know it's going to be hard since you say you just can't seem to talk around her, but girls like guys that are self-confident. You should try to talk to her about something you know a lot about but it should also be interesting to her.

The "stalking" thing? If you really aren't stalking her then just make sure you are giving her space. If you just happen to keep running in to her, just play it cool and don't act all super excited and giddy around her.

Answer 6

Here's a thing, if you dont do it now, somebody will take her away from you. You don't want that to happen do you? Just talk to her. Feel good about yourself. Build your confidence. You can do it.

Answer 7

why dont try it, maybe you are just afraid of nothing or maybe what you are feeling is similar to what you are feeling. go for it and get t from the horses mouth.

Answer 8

hmmm