basically i dont have much to type, but it comes down to this. She was my 1st girl nothing major, lasted a couple of days its just something to laugh about now. Havent seen her for years, out of the blue she calls me and we start to hang out. I ask her to hang out 1 on 1, and call it a 'friendship date' and that im not trying to further the sexual relationship side of it.
At bars we usually go with a total of 4 people, and she never sticks around me for long. After the bars we were supposed to meet, one time she said she got pulled over by the cops, the other time she said she would call later, ended up being 30 min later. but i was already at some other friends house.
She called me about 3 times before i finally called her today. 3 days go by no call, I call her to chill, she says shes sick but later on to call, i call later on and she says its too late but shes having a party tomorrow to call her and that i can bring friends if I want.
My question is, what is my next move?
2006-06-09 21:30:23 · 4 answers · asked by Rigga 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It was hard typing all I had to say into that first details box. No I don't love her. We've just started hanging out the past 1 - 2 week(s) When we were alone she could only hang out for about 30 min she said she was meeting up with her friend. This girl used to like me alot back in the day but I paid it no attention. We never even kissed. That was like 6-8 years ago, im 24 now.
Do i goto this party tomorrow?
Do I wait for her to call me back, even though she said to call her when i wake up because i sleep late?
Do I ask for a real date even though i said i wasnt looking for that, or do i continue like it is now for a little longer...
decisions decisions
2006-06-09 21:50:56 · update #1
One day she asked what i was doing the next day and i said going out with someone she said "a friendship date" I said nah a real deal one, she seemed like slightly upset... but im positive she knows the game better then i do
2006-06-09 21:59:46 · update #2
Yeah, it does sound like she is playing mind games. I would say that you should not worry too much about her. Girls want the guy that they can't have. They want the guy that is a challenge. If you feel she isn't worth your time find a new girl. If she is, just take your time and play it cool. No rush or desperation. That scares women.
2006-06-09 21:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really get wat u r askin... but i think u r confused about whether u love her or not & i think that u r also not sure about whether she loves u or not.
And if thats not the case ... mean if ur just friends & u r not able to understand her then u should just keep a check on her for some days but dont let her know about this. U should go at her party but go alone. Check how she's goin with u.
If still u dont find her the way u expect then i think its time 4 u to better ask her ''what she wants''.
have guts & BE FRANK.
IF she doesnt answers u properly & then u dont deserve her to be ur friend. just say this to her...
GOOD LUCK.
2006-06-09 21:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by chippia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really does sound like she just wants to be "just" friends. Sounds like she's playing a lil bit of mind games with you. Just play it kool and time will tell. Good Luck
2006-06-09 21:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by -Nina- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you forgot to mention if you love her or not----refine your question.
2006-06-09 21:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jill W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋