i've been going out with a guy for a month now.
he wants to kiss me on the lips... but i get scared sometimes.
what do i do?! :S
and when would be the perfect time to make out?
2006-06-09 21:06:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plz forget him i am available to kiss u on ur lips r u ready
2006-06-09 21:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by arajaajmali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath and let him lead you will always be nervous the first time u kiss a guy ( or the 1st time you kiss a new guy) just make sure you are both comfatable and relaxed maybe at home on the sofa watching a good film or at the back of the cinema just make sure to have some mints or chewing gum handy just so u dont heave if his breath smells just casually hand him a chewing gum then go in for the killing (after u spit ur gum in the bin ) (or let him make the 1st move ur choice)
2006-06-10 04:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only do something that you're comfortable with --hopefully he will respect that. If you don't feel you're ready to kiss him on the lips then don't. There's no time frame. And the same goes for making out. It will happen naturally when you're comfortable.
If he's not willing to give you time until you feel right, then he doesn't really care. Move on.
2006-06-10 04:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you scared or just nervous or just the butterflies flying around inside? First off - don't over think it. The perfect time is most anytime. It should come naturally and not be "forced" Relax about it and you will enjoy it more. I still remember the first kiss with the women I have dated over the years and they still make my heart race.
2006-06-10 04:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by bigej65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must trust the person and really make sure you want to kiss him, that is if you want something serious, which I assume you do if you have been seeing him for a month already. The perfect time willbe when you feel comfortable. But if you do not want to be kissed, expalin your reasons to him.
2006-06-10 04:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by azoteman_213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until you're comfortable....kissing has to come naturally. There is no "perfect time" to make out, just relax and enjoy the mood.
If he tries to kiss you and you feel ok with it, just take a breath and enjoy. Kissing can be amazing....so have fun!
2006-06-10 04:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Toybear_mav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing is first.... no on likes the vaccum kissers... u want to be slow... no tounge, Maybe just a lil bit but not enough to notice.... and dont worry about the perfect time.... its his job u just need to prepare for a couple things, Vaccum kisser (where he sucks your life out or slobbers on you) or that you both like it and wont stop =).....most guys will slober... but when i kiss a girl i want her to have that perfect kiss for like 4 seconds.. i always try to leave them wanting more... do that to guys and u will get what u want TRUST ME we are stupid!
2006-06-10 04:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by dreamweaver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when me and my boyfriend (who i've been w/ for a couple of years now) were still kinda scared to kiss on the lips, i would give him a kiss on the nose while he kissed my chin & then we'd switch. it gave us the closeness of kissing without the big commitment. (our first kiss w/ each other was each of our first kisses ever) it was great sort of compromise. we still do that sometimes.......*grin*
2006-06-10 04:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl,how old are you?dont worry bout it,i know you feel nervous and all but dats jus the way it is...once u finally agree on doin it just go with the flow...let HIM lead u....n don worry bout embarassin urself..its ok,he wil like u anyway
2006-06-10 08:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Hmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the right time comes you will know what to do, What do you mean make out, do you mean s*r**
2006-06-10 04:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋