ok my boyfriend is staying at home this weekend by himself and he doesnt want to stay home alone so i asked my mom if he could stay with us and my parents freaked out...i dont know why she wouldnt let him sleep on the couch i mean we know the rules so why doesnt she trust me?
2006-06-09 19:52:53 · 21 answers · asked by Gracee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your parents probably assume that the two of you have been...lets say, "active"...and while they aren't trying to sabotage every chance you get to be with him, they certainly don't want to be the enablers in case you bend the "rules" and hook up in the laundry room!
2006-06-09 19:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by sassinstyle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
#1 They want a good nights sleep, which is hard knowing your daughter's boyfriend is in the next room.
#2 Do you want people calling you a slut just because your boyfriend stayed at your house, even if nothing happened? They are looking out for your reputation. RESPECT THEM AND YOURSELF FOR THEIR DECISION.
He can spend the night with one of his guy friends if he's afraid to stay by himself or go with his parents.
2006-06-09 20:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by yourmother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying "It's a good idea to know the rules, that way you can break them properly"?
It doesn't matter that you say you know the rules, what matters is that your parents don't know if you will follow them or not. It also matters whether your parents know your boyfriend well or not. They don't want you potentially making a mistake and winding up pregnant.
2006-06-09 20:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a young girl and he is a young guy. Any parent who would trust their kids in a situation are clearly morons who are more concerned about being their kids "friend" rather than being their parent. Your parents clearly are on the right track. Give them a hug and thank them for having the moral backbone and intellectual conviction to be your parent rather than your friend.
2006-06-09 19:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard for parents to understand they feel they know better and think things might happen they are playing better safe than sorry. they care for you. They just looking out but if they worry then u can sleep with them andlet him stay the night. Also how old are you? some paretns have problems with girls dating!!! so you lucky tat way :)
2006-06-09 19:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rieko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, when I was younger my parents never minded if my boyfriend stayed overnight. The only thing was - he had to sleep between mom and dad!
2006-06-09 20:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya..i m glad u know the rules.. i luv that kinda girls.. but u know any human being sometimes cant control himself.. so i guess u should respect there dicision.. plz dont take me wrong .. i just wanted to give u a nice friendly suggestion.. but then its ur life .. right? do what u wanna do.. if u dont want to listen to ur parents order..fight with them.. do hunger strike and stuff like that.. but i wont recommend that..
2006-06-09 20:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Hammad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c there lil girl is grown up now that why (most perents have a prob with that kinda stuff its never like what u see on tv where the boyfriend is like the missing kid of the girls fam)
2006-06-09 19:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by albert44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should trust you but your mum is always gone be mum she only protecting you is not that she doesn't trust you please understand that. If you won't do anything then mum will know that you can be trusted just be good and stay out of trouble.
2006-06-09 19:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only had a Brain.
As you get older you`ll get wiser.
The correct answer is THINK.
2006-06-09 22:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Chef Ralph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋