Woman only please...Am I her number 1 man?

Question

We are currently long distance but we know each other pretty well and for many years. She is comfortable with me, this I know. She tells me that she doesn't talk with any other guys like she talks with me and she doesn't even talk with any other women like she talks with me. Should I have expectations?

I am not pushy to ask her this question. She knows i am unconditional and i know not to have expectations. I gues I am wondering if I should have anticipations. I won't ask her, it might take the fun out of it, you know. I like the pulse rate.

we are both very recently separated from our spouses and are going through an emotional transition

oh and i am pretty certain that she and i both believe that friends make the best lovers....or am i being optimistic

Answer 1

if you trust her, don't question it...if you don't trust her, don't stay with her

Answer 2

You really need to pose this question to her if you want to know one way or the other. At least then the cards will be out on the table.

Answer 3

unless you are having sex a woman will only talk to a guy like a best friend if she doesn't have THOSE kind of feelings. if you have had good sex and she still feels like talking to you like a best friend you have a shot however no sex all talk .....goood luck

Answer 4

Okay, so you have trust. Do you have chemistry? Passion? Romance?

It sounds to me like you two are just friends. After all, she compared you to "women"! I think you should clarify where your relationship stands... because it sounds purely platonic to me!

Answer 5

You should by now have a couple I'd think...

Answer 6

so far, so gud...yea id say so:)