we've gone out 6 times, he buys or makes me dinner, pays for everything, and is so sweet to me!!! im not complaining about the way he acts... but i just dont get why he wont try anything with me.
ive been flirty, ive even flipped through his Playboys while he watched!!! hes not gay, and i thought he liked me (why would he buy me dinner if he didnt?)
Whats wrong????
2006-06-09 18:56:40 · 24 answers · asked by MRose 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, my breath is fine. even if it wasnt, he hasnt gotten close enough to notice. :0(
as for lack of experience, hes 28 (im 21) so i would hope he'd have at least a little...
i dont know why this guy makes me so nervous. maybe because he's a good one.
im moving soon, would that have something to do with it?
im sooooo confused!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-09 19:14:26 · update #1
YOU have been flirty, but what about him? Could it just be that he wants a friendship and pays for your meals out of a sense of obligation? I have lots of male friends who pick up the bill when we go out, because they think its the "manly" thing to do.
I think that you should stop torturing yourself and just kiss him first! I found that a good way to do this was to whisper in his ear on the walk home, "You know... I've been thinking some very, VERY naughty thoughts..." Of course, that's pretty forward! You can just kiss him at a good moment without saying anything if you want. But it's time for you to make the first move so you can move on- hopefully together!
2006-06-09 19:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have some disease he feels that if he lets you know about it: you'll hit the road without looking back. And worse if he touches you in ways you'd like him to: you'll want to go for the longest cleansing ceremony.
On second thought, sometimes the things that happens in life reveal a deeper hidden part of ourselves. So ask yourself this: do you have doubts about this dude? What are your fears? Is he what you really want?
If the answers are positive then, it's him: he has a really scary disease.
All in all tell him how you feel.
2006-06-10 02:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have green teeth? Maybe he is gay and just needs a companion? Ask him! Better yet, if you're so sure he isn't gay, after he treats you to a dinner or whatever, get up to go to the bathroom (or whatever) and walk by and kiss him tenderly on the cheek or wherever. It may open him up.
2006-06-10 02:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to take it slow.. he's a gentlemen. I love those, me and my bf went out two weeks before we kissed, it wasn't till after prom. It kinda just happened. Before that we would just hug and hold hands and that was awesome because it kept the butterflies in the stomach thing going. But if you really want to go ahead and kiss his cheek or hand or something.. he'll take the hint.
2006-06-10 02:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he sees you as a friend or he's just too shy. Browsing through his playboys will only make him think of you in a purely sexual way. Is this what you want?
2006-06-10 02:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lotte T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okey, get a date again and do these things,
01. get date. good at night time in cinema.
02. get nice bath with nice shower gel and clean your body well. I know you are clean but you have to clean to,
03. apply a romantic perfume you love. good to apply under year, neak,
04. use mouthwash.
05dress with washed cloth, good it is 100% Cotton, dress is important tight and highlighting figure dress is important, small little bit loose skirt is good for bottom,don't wear denims,try to dress little bit sexier but don't dress like bad girl, okey
06. after you meet him try to stay near and on him,
07 talk nicely,
08 see under eyes,
09.call him slowly
10.good luck
2006-06-10 02:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by bula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what's wrong... BUT... maybe he wants you to make the first move. Try it and if it works than great, if not then you can either ask him what's up, or move on.
Good luck
2006-06-10 01:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Trent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcuz he's a good guy n not some sex crazy dog.. be happy.. he's the right guy for u.. he loves u.. :).. i know that bcuz i m also in love with a girl... i know when u r in love.. u r like that.. u respect ur partner n u dont wanna make it some sick relationship based on the greed of lust..
2006-06-10 02:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Hammad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a sex addict, and a kiss means straight to sex for him. Or he's celibate and is not telling you, because he does not want your kiss in fear of breaking his spell of chastity. Or one or you has bad breath. So many options, so little space...
2006-06-10 02:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by LadySov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes nervous and if you really want to kiss why dont you make the first move your happy and he will be happy to
2006-06-10 02:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋