Please,help me! Only Asian can help me! I had three friends They're Asian girls.One day,I asked them what is traditional Asian hairstyle and I told them that someone told me that they use like sushi sticks in teir ead( for girls) and I don't know how is called.They don't want to be friends with me anymore because of this sticks.I apologized, but these girls didn't even want to listen to me!Please, help!What should I do?How can we become friends again?
2006-06-09 18:27:18 · 5 answers · asked by Flippy 3 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Other - Asia Pacific
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2006-06-09 18:49:19 · update #1
I was talking about this hairstyle with them!
2006-06-09 18:50:21 · update #2
I'm Asian, I too, don't get it why some girls like to put chopsticks up in their hair. There's so many kinds of hair accessories in the market, why chopsticks?
And your friends are totally ridiculous for being angry with minor remarks if you all are sincere friends.
If you still wanna be friends again, apologise sincerely. If they don't accept, too bad, their loss for a sincere friend, I say. Move on, you'll get to know better people.
Anyway, there are no traditional Asian hairstyles actually. People just copy fashion anywhere they can find.
2006-06-12 07:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
They do not sound like very good friends.
Are you sure it's just about the Hairstyle?
You need to get some moral support from another source - if you are a Buddhist - go to the Temple and talk to the Priest - I think he will help you.
2006-06-09 21:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by fatsausage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun give up. Try to talk with them. Try, try & tries.... Asian ppl not so cruel. They r friendly but u must know how to be their friend. For them, their culture, family & religion r very serious issue. Dun make it as a joke. Try to talk with them and dun give up. Chayok! Gogo girl!
2006-06-11 04:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by lazuardi.sepi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, honey. but your friends are ridiculous for getting mad at you just because of a miserable hairstyle. however, if you still want to be friends with them, apologize endlessly. keep saying you're sorry that you offended them in anyway.
about the hairstyle, it's rude to put chopsticks in your hair. chopsticks are meant for eating tools. they are not hair accessories. i'm not chinese, though. i'm malay... so i don't use chopsticks. but i see this as something inappropriate of a hairstyle.
2006-06-09 21:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by anak sendu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with fReE vO!cE and i'm asian too!!!
2006-06-13 14:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋