i went to have coffee ( iced tea for me) with my dad today and all his friends hit on me. the first one was talking like we were gonna get married and the last one is very wealthy and he asked me to move in with him and started talking about sex and playing a womans hirmonica....eeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what should i have said? what would you say or do? my dad didnt hear what they said and i didnt want to tell him.....
2006-06-09 16:59:28 · 15 answers · asked by wayladuley 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
UGH
UGH
Dang that's kinda gross....
Bless your heart you've had a bad day!
I would have laughed in a fake voice and said please your an old man!
Or
Wonder What Dad Would Think Of That???
Say something so they don't think you liked it.
Tell your dad his friends have lost it.....lol
I really don't know what I would have said. I would have been to shocked to have said anything...
2006-06-09 17:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 12⤊ 1⤋
There is several different ways to handle this.
If you are under 16, you tell someone NOW! Either your mom, dad, or an adult at school or at least a friend!
If you are over 16, you still should tell, but may not want to, and in truth while everyone can tell you what they would do, but only someone who has walked in your shoes...
Here are a few tips that might help, to avoid this situation from happening again.
If the same set up with dad happens again.
Hold your own, in a firm voice, tell them you don't appreciate this kind of talk. Most of these types of people will back down. They are looking for someone passive and or shy.
If your father leaves the table, go with him. If he goes to the men's room you go to the ladies room. They won't make a move with unless they can without your dad being there.
If you ever get in a similar situation, but not with dad's friends. The firm voice is still a good tool.
In the old days, we had pay phones in the ladies room. Today you have to use your cell phone (always keep it charged). Call a friend to come an meet you there, and leave with them.
If it ever goes past talk, NO! and you do what every you need to get away.
Remember no matter what, you are not the cause of this. This is their baggage, and you don't want any part of it.
2006-06-10 03:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Robin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bunch of harmless sick perverts. What kind of man would act that way towards a friend's daughter? Anyway, as long as they don't actually try to do anything you should just avoid them altogether.
When your dad asks to go out again for coffee you should politely decline if his friends will be there. Tell your dad that you were not comfortable around some of his friends because of some of the remarks they made.
2006-06-10 00:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by The Infidel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know the situation. Are you like 25, or 14? If you're 14 or sumthing like that, definately tell your dad. He needs to know. I'm sure he'll have a lil' talk with his frnds. And if your 25, take it in ur control. either make a good retortions that'll make em shut up, or smack him on the face...
2006-06-10 01:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♥PurePoison♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These "friends" have no respect for you nor your father! I would tell my father b/c I think that he should know that these guys have no regard for your feelings or his friendship. If I was a parent and this occurred with my child, I would want to know! I'd be furious that I was investing time and my good will to "friends" that sexually harassed my child! Do not protect these pervs and do not allow your father to be "in the dark" about their behavior!
2006-06-10 02:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Janeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like these guys aren't worthy of being your dad's friends. Youe should tell your dad you got a bad vibe from them so that he distances himself from them a little. If he doesn't, then tell him exactly what they said. That's disrespectful to you and to your dad.
2006-06-10 02:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by shedavco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, their your dads friends, so I would politely, but firmly, tell them you are not interested in them at all. Dont leave any room for doubt. If they persist, then tell your dad.
2006-06-10 00:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by shocktrooper342003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to said:
go to hell!
kill them!they are not human!they was an a ape that evolution to human and go this time!kill them!!!
my answer:
report to the police!!
tell the world how evil of them!
get support from your friend!
hey,...i,m to serious!hahahaha!
2006-06-10 00:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by qz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them there losers and tell your dad his "friens" are perverts. not unless you like older men and would be comfertable sleeping with your dads friends.
2006-06-10 00:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by bambitattoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and marry the rich guy without a prenup.
2006-06-10 00:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by Just Say NO to 9-5 Jobs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋