This guy that I lost my virginity to is a total manwhore. He sleeps with all his friends (all girls) and treats all of them as if they were his girlfriends, but never commits to any of them. I made the STUPID mistake of sleeping with him and thinking I could change him- yeah right! And now, he expects me to be like the rest of his harem and be friends with him, exchanging sexual remarks/favors but being okay with him sleeping around- a lot. He continually calls me, text me, etc. And I feel bad ignoring him. I don't want to shut the door on the big part of my life that he became when I lost my virginity to him. But I really can't take being friends with him because he has this way of, when he's talking to me, making me feel like I'm the only girl he wants and it gives me this false hope. And then I'm crushed all over again everytime I know he's slept around. I'm sick of being the f*cking doormat, but it's like I'm addicted. What should I do?
2006-06-09 16:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men like that wont just change overnight...and dont think you can make him. If you arent comfortable being friends with him then tell him...and if you'd like to be friends with him tell him you'll be his friend but you arent going to be anyone's 'play thing' You should never let a guy treat you that way...and it seems like you know it...Just tell him how you feel. He'll always be a big part of your life...because he was your first...but you dont have to make him a bigger part by keeping him around...Hope this helps
2006-06-09 17:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by lilcountrykat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why you're asking this question. You know what to do just as well as anybody else. Unless you're one of those women who thrive on the pity, self pity and self loathing. In that case nobody can help you.
2006-06-09 17:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check for std and walk away from him forever find a job or go back to what u did before u met him i wouldn't be surprise if he had kids outhere
2006-06-09 17:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by weapon-x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and move on
2006-06-09 16:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not garbage. Tell him to kiss your butt.
2006-06-09 16:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start walking
2006-06-10 14:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋