K SO I TALKED 2 THIS GUY FOR A REALLY LONG TIME. I WAS 9TH GRADE HE WAS A SENIOR SO I THOT I WAS ON TOP OF THA WORLD. HE SAW MY PIC AND LAUGHED AND REJECTED ME BY TEXTING MY FRIEND ON MY CELL SAYING " SHE'S PRETTY. BUT IM NOT INTO BIG GIRLS"! I FORGAVE WE STARTED BACK TALKIN (AS FRIENDS) BUT EVEN THEN THINGS DIDNT WORK OUT, MOSTLY BECAUSE I WAS STILL MAD AT HIM.
2006-06-09 16:43:42 · 14 answers · asked by dipdap 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you are too young to be worried about some jerk the best thing is too be happy and blessed i'm a big girl have been my whole life but i am happy married with 2 kids and a professional with friends and most of all the love of God thru Jesus in my heart--pray and move on
2006-06-09 16:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by lvhumphries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you had to deal with somebody like that but unfortunately in this world, there are people who just don't see the whole picture, and what's important and what's not. I think when you realize that you are a beautiful person, no matter what anybody says, and you look in a mirror and can say it, a thousand times without looking away, then you'll feel better, increased self-esteem and realize what a jerk he was for losing somebody who is as nice as you sound!! There are lots of other guys out there, so don't waste your time on somebody like him, focus on you, focus on the positive, look to what you do have and who you do have in your life today!!!! Good luck! Things will be better!:)
2006-06-10 00:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few people have the chance to see the ten or twenty different ways that young people are raised. It is easy to think it has to be at least similar in many ways to how you were raised. Actually it isn't. Now find a guy who has been raised the way you were and things will be easier to understand. Who needs to be upset anyway.
2006-06-10 00:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on!
YOu are mad at a guy for not dating you three years ago?
Find someone who WILL date you.
It sounds like you are still dwelling on it after all this time because you don't have anything else going on in your life.
Get something else more positive to think about.
2006-06-10 02:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get over a jerk?? That is probably one of the easiest things in the world unless you are infatuated with idiots...
Move on! Creeps are creeps and idiots are idiots. There are millions of fish in the sea and one is for you. This guy is NOT the one..
2006-06-09 23:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by lancelot682005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read books on developing a more positive self-image. Stay in good health, eat right, and next time he sees you and realizes what he gave up, say " Sorry, I'm not into shallow turds. Go find yourself a anorexic bimbo."
2006-06-10 01:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called him a "jerk". He did nothing to you. People do not HAVE to like 'big" people. Everyone is entitled to their own preferences. If I liked someone a lot but was not sexually attracted to them would that make me a "jerk", too ?
You need to allow people to be who they are if you want the same privilege. Good luck.
2006-06-09 23:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that all you did is talked? skip him one day he may be married to large marge herself and you can get the last laugh. size is not everything. its the persons heart. maybe, you can overlook his ignorance enough to forgive him if you want to be his friend your choice? maybe hes putting on a front to your friend to make himself look better when in fact hes not so bright after all. try to get past this if your comfortable with yourself. take a walk and walk him off your mind.
2006-06-10 00:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Superfical jerk...
there are plenty of people out there that like big girls..
find one
2006-06-09 23:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by blackpualani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shh! I have a secret Shhh!
Not everey one is gonna like you sorry
2006-06-10 02:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by tp3bop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋