2006-06-09 16:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it, second chances shouldn't be given or taken
2006-06-09 16:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by littlegrizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would very carefully approach him...... try starting with a short letter....... don't go into the routine of over dramatizing the issue ..keep it short and to the point..... he already knows that he is hurting so do not rub it in by going into act 23 of an Shakespearean Play.....all you can do is tell him your sorry and that you made a mistake...... then sit back and wait...... give him time to think about what you have said, and his heart time enough to grasp the idea of YOU wanting to get back together.... do NOT push it........ God bless
2006-06-09 23:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you better really mean it. The worst thing you can do to someone is fill them with false hope. Then tell your ex that you are sorry and you made a mistake ...just say how you really feel.
2006-06-09 23:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from someone who has been there i wouldnt hurt them right away like that give them time to cool off. But talk to them and tell them what a mistake u made, you wish that everything u did u could take back etc.. hope that helps
2006-06-09 23:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them get over the hurt, if you broke up with that person why would you need a second chance. think about it.
2006-06-10 00:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't want to rush them so start off slow rebuild the friendship first and as time goes on then you can start showing them how u feel a little more day by day. Remember they have to learn to trust u again so be patient and show them that they can trust u again.
2006-06-09 23:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by browneyes517@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it will help the hurting or make it worse just give it your best shot tell them you miss them and still think of them and that u really want to get back together
2006-06-09 23:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Flafibopsicles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u have to talk to him and tell him ure feelings. say like "i made a mistake when i broke up with u...". beacse if u dont say it right know his feelings r going to change and that leaves u knoewhere. take a chance.
2006-06-09 23:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by iranian gurl and proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh DONT. dont play with them like that. its normal to miss them, but dont yank them around. if things have changed and this time it could work, tell them what has changed. if you had a messy breakup, dont even bother.
2006-06-09 23:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Wait. If you don't, the effects will probably be diastrous for the both of you.
2006-06-09 23:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by craftykid22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋