When this man raped he left me for dead ( physically ) among the dead ( souls )... Ive been locked into a mental jail of the soul dead...all the chains of these soul scars are the chains....does ANYBODY HAVE THE KEY OUT OF THIS JAIL !???????
2006-06-09 16:30:48 · 26 answers · asked by trinity_loves_neo1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
hey little girl....Ive read your not so cool answers from some of your evil friends....Im amazed at how low and ignorant some men can get when you are baring your soul and crying out for help...at the same time these women on here are a bunch of princesses.....you are blessed with their love and concern..keep talking and asking questions..hang in there love...
2006-06-10 05:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by princess_shira99 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I would suggest you go into some form of work with girls and boys who have been abused. Perhaps go to another country where the acceptance of such terrible activities drives the need for help higher and also the benefit for you to be higher.
Take the negative energy created by this perverted bad person and focus it on passionately helping people.
Also read the Bible as much as you can and use the Bible in your quest.
Remember when all else fails that Jesus does love you even through humans have done you very very wrong.
Focus the energy generated from bad action on good action. From a karma sense this will help you.
2006-06-09 23:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Lava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality you can not change and do not run away from it. It is indeed painful and leave deep marks in your soul. The only great key to get out of the trap is to free your self from self guilt and locking yourself inside your own prison. It needs time to heal but only you, yourself can do it. Try to always end your day with praying to God to give you strength (you must mean it), have best friend, walk for light shopping and have hobby,. It's not easy but only YOU can do it. You'll make it
2006-06-09 23:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strength is the key. Be strong enough to say that YOU are hurting YOURSELF more than any rapist ever did. What happened to you is unfair and extremely painful, but by continuing to focus on it you are the one CHOOSING to wallow in pain. You will NEVER be able to look back on the event and say "I can see now that I should have enjoyed that", so if you want to be happy you must look forward .Sorry if this sounds cold, but only YOU can decide to look for things in life to enjoy, and things to achieve. You can't undo what has been done. You must look forward to what could be.
Don't turn to organised religion, whatever you do. That is just another prison. Ask to be given a sign what you can do to go forward but DON'T ask anyone specific(God, Jesus, etc). If you are sincere, you will get one.
2006-06-10 01:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trinity--in the hurt and disillusion you are in, you are not aware of certain things that are extremely important right now--You must first hold to three major points --you are still alive and able to heal and recieve help for what has happened ---you have people in this world who will work on whatever level they have to to be there for you--people who really do care about making all this different for you---And most important of all--whither you think so or not--I am telling you now that you are bigger than this and you will defeat it and when you do you will be stronger than ever and wiser than ever and you will conquer things in the future that you never thought possible simply because you will have whipped something like this---so--believe me here---You are the one that has this 'key' --it's YOU--you don't see that right now because of the pain and confusion--but you do have it--it is called RESOLVE trinity you must RESOLVE to conquer this--and you don't have to do it alone---reach out to someone you can trust to let you talk it out and to help be your support--but you can do this ---others have and do and they are no better or more able than you---Peace to you sweet one---------I'll be thinking good things for you and wondering about your progress---meantime---Peace and Love------------LarryJ7
2006-06-09 23:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic answer that will make it all go away. Counseling is a start. Many rape counseling places have professionals that will help for free. As time goes by it will get easier to deal with and the scars will start to heal.
2006-06-10 04:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sinthyia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, i don't know where to start, i highly recommend a therapist and try to get into group therapy, i help run a support group for abused woman and having support and safe people around is the key, you need someone you can trust and share with and when you open up about your situation, only then can you release your self from the prison
2006-06-09 23:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by SUNSHINE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do, only you. Fight back. Don't let that man keep you imprisoned another day or minute. Try to think of it as if you survived an enemy attack on the front lines of a war battle. You survived, so you can go on with life. Fight back.
2006-06-09 23:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by rockEsquirrel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a medical professional (a therapist or psychologist), not an imaginary being, has these keys.
Since you posted this in this section, I suppose I'll tell you what you want to hear: Pray
2006-06-09 23:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different crisis centers, and centers for abused women that provide counseling and resources for victims of sexual abuse. Many religious organizations also provide programs in this area. Pray and serch out someone you are comfortable expressing your feelings to.
2006-06-09 23:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by kawaski b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST! prosecute! do not let him get away with it...
SECOND! you have to forgive...then you will be free...
Even if you do not have the heart truth to forgive...just say it over and over and over till you are free and it becomes truth.
God WILL help you if you let Him. He is the overcomer. He says, in this world we will have troubles, but He has overcome the world.
Get into therapy, like some others have said.
I will be praying for you as I am reminded.....God bless you, sweetie.
2006-06-10 05:15:14 · answer #11 · answered by deed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋