My cousin and his family are staying with us at my moms house.They are visiting us from out of state. I am sleeping in the same room (with 2 beds) with my cousin. The other night when i was sleeping he came over to my bed and was touching me all over. I pretended to be sleeping as I didn't know what to do. He than pulled my cover down some and was touch himself and rubbing my thighs(I had boxer shorts on). I was trying not to show and reaction and get hard and act like sleeping. he then took out his penis and masterbated on my arm and shoulder and wiped it off with a shirt when he was finished. he then went to bed and my heart was beating fast.In the morning I couldn't look at him, but he acted like nothing happened. they are staying with us all week and i don't want that to happen again.I don't know if I should staya t another friends house or if that would be rude.And i don;t ever want to tell my mom or his family. Should I stay at a friends house until they leave? I am confussed.
2006-06-09 16:18:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Sorry, if I didn't make it clear! I am a MALE not a female.does that make a differece now.
2006-06-09 16:28:48 · update #1
I think you should apply for a job with a sex magazine relating stories for the sexually frustrated.
2006-06-09 16:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by sean1201 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are a crime victim and as such you do have the right to press charges. There is nothing to be ashamed about here if someone is going to be a victim of a sex crime it is likely to be caused by another family member. You have choices, tell mom or dad, or contact the police. What you are saying is very serious and needs to be taken seriously. If mom or dad is not much help then take it to a higher power. You may need counseling because things like this just don't go away and could show up in bad dreams for years to come. Don't worry about that just focus on justice.
2006-06-09 17:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by The Tank 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you should tell. If you don't want to do that or cant do that then maybe you should stay at a friend's house. Your family might think it is rude though. Is there somewhere else in your house that you can sleep? If you do have to stay there and he does it again don't pretend to be asleep. Tell him to get out of your bed and leave you alone!
2006-06-09 16:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by pottersclay70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent planning on telling anyone then yeah totally stay somewhere else. Just say you were invited over.
But I do suggest you tell someone else. Because if there are other children in the house, then he may do it to them. So pls tell someone. You may be embarresses but tell a police officer becoz that is classed as rape aswell.
Its in yu best interest to tell someone so that it doesnt happen to any other children in your house.
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2006-06-09 16:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Elmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really important that you tell someone what happened. When a person commits a sexual act with you without your permission, its assault.
Okay, I realize that you probably wont do that (but please do! I say this because you dont know what else he's doing to OTHER girls that may be worse, and you could put a stop to that).
Definately go somewhere that you feel safe, even if it seems rude or pisses off your parents; your safety is the most important thing here. Good luck
2006-06-09 16:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sam3931 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go stay with a friend. If anyone gives you any crap.... tell them what happened.
1. You didn't ask for it.
2. You are not the one with a problem.
3. You are the victim.
It's embarassing, but you have to remember you did nothing wrong. Dude needs help.
**Does he have any younger brothers or sisters??? If so, it's probably a good idea to tell someone.
2006-06-09 16:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by punchy333 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is REALLY wrong what he did! And you SHOULD tell someone. Does he have any siblings that are younger? Does he have access to ANY younger children? If so, you NEED to TELL, because you may not be the only person this has happened to, he may be doing it to others! He could turn out to be a child-pornagrapher. Also, I would go to stay with someone else.
2006-06-09 16:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by keri l 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you may have a real problem here. Talk to him about it or to someone outside of the situation that you trust. Just talk to someone, you shouldn't be afraid in your own home. You need to find some help with this, more than you can ever get here.
2006-06-09 16:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by KWCHAMBER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your are really uncomfortable. I think you had a good idea about staying with a friend. You dont need that stress.
2006-06-09 16:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by UCURGYPSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck. truly, you are able to administration your hormones. that's a count number of dedication and to respond to your question: in case you want to, go ahead. you do not prefer to ask strangers in case you want to do a relative or not. that is strange.
2016-11-14 10:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMM, how do i say this polietly...TELL ON THE *^$#ing CREEP!!!! if you don't do it for yourself, do it for his next victim!!! THIS IS SEXUAL ASSUALT. YOU ARE A VICTIM. It breaks my heart to hear that this is even a question for you. HE NEEDS HELP! And you should not be staying anywhere but in your own house, where you should feel always SAFE. TELL SOMEONE, NOW! BEFORE HE TAKES IT FURTHER!
2006-06-09 16:24:48 · answer #11 · answered by karrybear_2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋