what guy doesnt enjoy the occaisional bj? I wouldnt dream of trying to force her into doing anything she doesnt feel comfortable with, but do I now have to live the the rest of my life w/o the sensation of fellatio, or is their a freindly, sensative way of requesting it?
2006-06-09 16:15:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aside from the idiots above, I would just talk to her about it and see if she could become more accepting of it. Most girls will be okay with it if you're polite and don't expect anything (which you obviously are very polite and wouldn't dream of forcing her). If she refuses to come around without even ATTEMPTING to change, it's a matter of you deciding what's right. If you think you can deal with her never doing it, go for it. If not, perhaps you should try looking for another girlfriend. That's not to say that just because a girl doesn't give you a bj that you should dump her, but she should definitely be willing to at least do it every once in a while to pleasure you!
2006-06-09 16:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's something she does not like doing then that is that. You cannot make her like it. You will have to do something else to have that feeling. Do not cheat on her. If you cannot live without it then break up with her so you both can be happy with someone else. Maybe if you do more "out of the box" things in the bedroom she will try new things you like with her mouth around that area, to put it in her mind you should give her some every time you do it for a long while. It could get her thinking about it. Why did I even answer this question? I guess it was the "sensative way of requesting it" line.
2006-06-09 23:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your girlfriend you say. Tell her that if she doesnt start trying then she is getting replaced by a younger, newer model and see what she does.......(please be a man and put some force and truth into this) . If she still insists on still not doing it and just wants you to do it to her, remember she is just a girlfriend and not a wife who can divorce you and take 50 % or more. Kick her out and get a younger newer one..............Good luck
2006-06-09 23:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your girlfriend don't like doing that then u should respect her decision...its like u doing something that u r very much against...its your choice, u can find someone that will or u can love her for who she is.....its not the end of the world.....ask yourself this question?" Do I love her enough to keep her despite that she don't like giving u a B/J?"
2006-06-09 23:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Starbright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is best when you do your best to satisfy your partner. You're more concerned with your own pleasure. Reverse your priorities and learn to perform cunnilingus. After you become a good lover you can make requests that she'll be happy to do.
2006-06-09 23:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to her. If she still doesnt do it I strongly advise you to stop giving oral sex to her. The way I see it if a guy gives his girl oral sex than she should give it to him. Otherwise she doesnt have the right to get mad when her guy refuses to give her oral sex.
2006-06-09 23:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont force her to do it..jz w8 for the time that she will like it or i suggest you watch x movies in connection with that..I guess your girlfriend needs to explore more on different sex type i know she can adjust to it..make her think that nothing is wrong with that true lovers do that..
2006-06-09 23:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by mhindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u luv her and don't make it a big deal, but let her know it is something that u need. she will come around. women don't give head because that don't trust u or think your cheating on them.
2006-06-09 23:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by hamhocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should discuss why she doesn't and maybe u can help her overcome her fear of it,, make sure u are very clean and smell nice with cologne,, also, once u find out what the reason is,,help her with it,, maybe she just is intimidated by it and is not sure of how to do it
2006-06-09 23:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her to do it and tell her that doit just one time and if she dont like it dont force her to doit i start like that with my girl and now she love it and a bj feels good but a puss y feels better .
2006-06-09 23:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by chuco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋